Is he pulling away? Gemini men, or girls who have dated one?

[Anonymous]

Ok my question is this:

I have been going out with this gemini man and wow has its been a ride! On Sunday he gave me kiss and even said he will miss me since we can only see each other on the weekends. the dates before this was always great but ended with a hug and a "I'll call you later".. But this last one he went a little deeper, but then now I'm lost again because since Sunday he has not called only a few text messages but I wrote him first. Is he pulling away because he thinks he has made a mistake or because he needs time to think?Its just on the other dates when I got a hug and he said he "would call me later, he would after a day or two but after the hole kiss and "ill miss you" he has not called!We have kissed before and had sex, its just its the first "good bye kiss" I have gotten from him and "I'll miss you".. I have no problem giving him his space, I got a lot to do know anyways but just can't help to wonder. A friend told me that a gemini man can act like this, its how they are and another friend told me that its just men..lol..It would be fun to hear some thoughts regarding this, thank you :) (We have been talking since June and gone out on about 9 dates if that helps any?)

[Tamikaze]

I am a Gemini woman and this is not about his astrological sign, this is about you letting him treat you like this.

If a guy is not emotionally connected with you and needs space, the first space you need to give him is a lot of space between his penis and your vagina. You are in a casual sexual deal here girlfriend. Never put sex before connection. Any guy who really is in to you will be willing to wait for the physical after he falls for you. And, you two, need to focus on the emotional before you start having sex with someone. You should never feel like you are lucky that a guy misses you or wait for a promised call that doesn't come. This guy is not treating you right and you should dump him. Good luck!