My husband did this for me.. His dad gave us a house so things were pretty alright, and now he only works 3 days a week so its pretty chill. I took a break from him to get my mental health in order and to see if there was anyone better but no man on the market seems worth it. The good ones are already taken so might as well go back for the kids sake. And now that I went back to school I can actually get a job if I want.
Not all women are like me lol I am just a user I go for the best option in all cases.. but I would never take what is someone else's.. like I left my husband and left everything behind, I never took anything from him. Now that I sorted myself out and can work I will go back to the crap that is my family lol
@Avicenna what? nothing wrong with it.. he knew what I was doing while we were broken up.. he still knows everything about me.. he even knows I don't love him.. but we are friends so it works out..
You don't know nothing.. you say I'm lazy but you don't know how I lived or what I do.. Like I say you are only 18.. you still don't know life yet, just wait until it keeps beating you down.. and mommy and daddy ain't there to bail you out.
Fuck that shit. I'm not getting married just to work all the time. I'm a ROMANTIC! I want to enjoy life with my sweetheart and make happy memories together! I don't want to be apart from one another and just be an absent benefactor.
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(25-29)
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It's fair deal i guess... I don't mind but i don't believe in marriage
women to be financial sole provider? women's can't even stay in marriage unless guy gives her his full bank account or she will divorce and take everything from her..
That was not my question. Also, your opinion of women in marriage is very stereotypical. Or very American. Women where I am from marry for God and the Man and to be submissive.
Since I'm not having kids with anyone, the question doesn't really apply to me. It's difficult for me to even imagine that kind of life or mindset, so I can't even guess.
Got no problem with that at all. Managing a family and home is really hard frigging work. Worth every penny that I earn and should be respected a such, not derided.
If I found marriage under current laws to be a worthwhile pursuit, I'd have no issue with that.
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I would like to be the sole financial provider for the family but I don't earn enough to make it cushy enough so in reality she would probably be working a part time job.
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I am. It works for us. She can work if she finds something she wants to do, or not.
I would absolutely love a relationship like this, and I'd also enjoy serving her and her boyfriends as a maid and personal if she wanted me to.
My husband did this for me..
His dad gave us a house so things were pretty alright, and now he only works 3 days a week so its pretty chill. I took a break from him to get my mental health in order and to see if there was anyone better but no man on the market seems worth it. The good ones are already taken so might as well go back for the kids sake. And now that I went back to school I can actually get a job if I want.
Women.
Not all women are like me lol I am just a user I go for the best option in all cases.. but I would never take what is someone else's.. like I left my husband and left everything behind, I never took anything from him. Now that I sorted myself out and can work I will go back to the crap that is my family lol
Ugh...
@Avicenna ugh what?
That was in response to what you posted
@Avicenna Yeah why?
Look at what you posted
@Avicenna what? nothing wrong with it.. he knew what I was doing while we were broken up.. he still knows everything about me.. he even knows I don't love him.. but we are friends so it works out..
Bruh.
Bruh.. you are only 18.. wait til you get my age you will see there is no point in even living lol
Find a purpose mate. At least a hobby. AND DON’T SAY LOL THAT’S FUNNY. YOU ARE JUST LAZY.
You don't know nothing.. you say I'm lazy but you don't know how I lived or what I do..
Like I say you are only 18.. you still don't know life yet, just wait until it keeps beating you down..
and mommy and daddy ain't there to bail you out.
I am NOT a ATM!
Yes but YOU ARE A MAN.
So?
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Men should be the providers.
Adults should be the providers, adult women should act like adults.
We should nothing. If you want a provider, find a sugar daddy. I'm not one.
Fuck that shit. I'm not getting married just to work all the time. I'm a ROMANTIC! I want to enjoy life with my sweetheart and make happy memories together! I don't want to be apart from one another and just be an absent benefactor.
It's fair deal i guess...
I don't mind but i don't believe in marriage
Why don't you believe in marriage?
Because I don't trust people...
Trust God.
I don't trust God too..
God doesn't exist
God doesn't exist, trust no one, and get to know an SO so well that trust isn't needed.
Yes but only if marriages are more certain to last than they are currently. In fact I'd rather like it.
women to be financial sole provider?
women's can't even stay in marriage unless guy gives her his full bank account or she will divorce and take everything from her..
That was not my question. Also, your opinion of women in marriage is very stereotypical. Or very American. Women where I am from marry for God and the Man and to be submissive.
thats true , is more in usa, but this new lifestyle is spreading fast and its mostly cause of women choose their career over family
I love to be a sole financial provider.
I want from my girl to stay home and do house works and take care childrens
yes but I'll provide entertainment for her to relax when she's done
Mywife stayed home for 11 years to take care of our 3 kids. We lived on one income. It was tough but I have no regrets.
Yes, but only the woman I was dating or married to wanted that.
I swear the girl in your pic looks familiar…
Since I'm not having kids with anyone, the question doesn't really apply to me. It's difficult for me to even imagine that kind of life or mindset, so I can't even guess.
Don’t want kids, and there’s not a chance in hell of anyone supporting a decent lifestyle on one income here anyway
I want to flip it and say, would you be OK with your husband staying home while you work?
YOu know that women are physically and mentally weaker than men.
So get a job for mentally and physically weaker people.
Got no problem with that at all. Managing a family and home is really hard frigging work. Worth every penny that I earn and should be respected a such, not derided.
If I had the money and knew that that's what would make my wife happy, then yes, absolutely.
If I found marriage under current laws to be a worthwhile pursuit, I'd have no issue with that.
I would like to be the sole financial provider for the family but I don't earn enough to make it cushy enough so in reality she would probably be working a part time job.