Is this a good idea to show my worth in my relationship?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend mostly prioritises other things and often fails to find time to communicate.

Sometimes she’s not at all needy or is too independent. Even complaint when I try to talk frequently. I think this happens because I’m too much available to her and do anything for her. I find time for her even if I have other important things to do.

While at home, she have to leave home at 4am to reach college on time. She do this monthly once. Morning train would be mostly empty and dark, so she feel lonely and feel weird. Every time I used to wake up at 4 to accompany her through chat/calls.
Tomorrow she’s going at 4am and I’m thinking of not waking up early to accompany her. So that she knows my worth and realise the effort I’m taking. What do you think?

[coconut94]

I wouldn’t think of it as making her see your worth. Just become your worth, start acting as a man who knows his worth and do what’s best for you while still caring about your girlfriend. It isn’t about trying to make her see by doing things that you don’t want to do or things that don’t make you feel good. That just builds resentment. You need to prioritize yourself first and also communicate to her with what you feel is lacking in the relationship. Don’t try to teach her a lesson or hope she catches on to something you’re doing, that’ll just add unnecessary hurt or bottled emotions.

[Asker]

Yes you’re right. I tried to communicate and she acts immature and is not trying to understand.

[bota_selena]

There are so many ways of showing her your worth. I think just talk about it openly, making such things kinda childish.

[Asker]

Okayyy.. Thank you