Would she have ever told you about this if she hadn't gotten pregnant? Unless that kid turns out to actually be yours', I don't think this should be salvaged.
See a lawyer and do everything you can to protect your assets, then dump her to the curb. Do everything you can to reduce anything she may get in a divorce.
Alcohol is no excuse to make the decision to cheat.
She cheated for a reason. You are not giving her something in the relationship. The cheating was to make her get your attention because all of her other methods of trying to make you hear her wasn’t working.
I don’t fully believe that. People cheat because it feels good and they believe they won’t get caught. To believe that if you give a woman or a man everything they want that they will never stray isn’t realistic. It may be true that women who are not satisfied at home would be more likely to stray, but sometimes it’s just for the added attention and for the fun of it.
See this is why some women feel like they can just do anything. Everything that goes wrong in their lives is everyone else's fault. And I'm willing to bet you've cheated on someone at least once in your life in which case anything you say can safely be ignored.
Honestly... what kind of bullshit thing u r saying... in that sense according to you... are u justifying cheating. ? No relationship is perfect.. we have to make it close to perfect.. there might be some issues between them but that doesn't give partner the license to go out and cheat.. ever heard words like - loyalty.. commitment.. ? For god sakes.. stop this nonsense
Honestly, the choice is up to you. If you want to divorce her because you can’t trust her, I wouldn’t blame you. As an adult, she should’ve been more responsible. It’s fine to drink and have fun but not to the point where you’ll be reckless.
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Personally I’d just say leave her. If the kid is yours then you can still raise the child but if the child isn’t yours the child should be with the father and you shouldn’t be forced to deal with someone else’s kid
A woman was found slain in an alley outside of "insert city here" yesterday. Detectives have identified the body and believe the motive was infidelity.
What made her drink? What did you do? But if you leave her, she will take you to the cleaners. Make her do your sex fantasies until you forgive her. Or fuck your mother in law to see how much you was hurt.
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Would she have ever told you about this if she hadn't gotten pregnant? Unless that kid turns out to actually be yours', I don't think this should be salvaged.
Definitely leave her. Cheating is cheating. She deserves to become a single mom. Smh.
But the child doesn’t deserve a single parent home if the baby is the husband’s
Don't care about the baby
Why would you stay in a relationship with someone you can’t trust?
move out apart, if not catholic then divorce her, actually even catholic might divorce for that. alcohol is not an excuse.
Being drunk is a lame excuse. She chose to cheat. You can do whatever you want, but for me cheating is a one-and-done.
See a lawyer and do everything you can to protect your assets, then dump her to the curb. Do everything you can to reduce anything she may get in a divorce.
Alcohol is no excuse to make the decision to cheat.
She cheated for a reason. You are not giving her something in the relationship. The cheating was to make her get your attention because all of her other methods of trying to make you hear her wasn’t working.
I don’t fully believe that. People cheat because it feels good and they believe they won’t get caught. To believe that if you give a woman or a man everything they want that they will never stray isn’t realistic. It may be true that women who are not satisfied at home would be more likely to stray, but sometimes it’s just for the added attention and for the fun of it.
Stop victim blaming.
Whatever
See this is why some women feel like they can just do anything. Everything that goes wrong in their lives is everyone else's fault. And I'm willing to bet you've cheated on someone at least once in your life in which case anything you say can safely be ignored.
Honestly... what kind of bullshit thing u r saying... in that sense according to you... are u justifying cheating. ? No relationship is perfect.. we have to make it close to perfect.. there might be some issues between them but that doesn't give partner the license to go out and cheat.. ever heard words like - loyalty.. commitment.. ? For god sakes.. stop this nonsense
Honestly, the choice is up to you. If you want to divorce her because you can’t trust her, I wouldn’t blame you. As an adult, she should’ve been more responsible. It’s fine to drink and have fun but not to the point where you’ll be reckless.
Personally I’d just say leave her.
If the kid is yours then you can still raise the child but if the child isn’t yours the child should be with the father and you shouldn’t be forced to deal with someone else’s kid
Personally, I would be totally okay with it, except for the pregnancy. If it turns out the kid is yours, just forgive.
You should indeed be hungry and mad it's your right to be hungry and mad at this situation. I think I would break up in this situation.
unless that is rape i don't think i would want to be with her. yeah order paternity test
She's pregnant with another man's baby. You'd be stupid not to leave.
The trust is gone now. You have no choice but to move on.
I call BS on blaming alcohol, she knew what she was doing was wrong.
Check if the kid is yours and if not the gtfo. If it is I'd still leave but figure out how to be a good dad and be responsible for the kid.
If you will not divorce her, then you're a cuckold for staying and putting up with it.
Make your choice.
A woman was found slain in an alley outside of "insert city here" yesterday. Detectives have identified the body and believe the motive was infidelity.
What made her drink? What did you do? But if you leave her, she will take you to the cleaners.
Make her do your sex fantasies until you forgive her.
Or fuck your mother in law to see how much you was hurt.
Find out if the kid is yours and then decide. It’s like a drunk driver saying I didn’t mean to hit your car it was the alcohol. Not an excuse