For the guys who married non-virgin women. Does it bother you?

[Anonymous]

Does it bother you that your wife has had the most intimate of relations with other men and now she is or is soon to be the mother of your children. Can you fully deal with the fact that other men have used her before you did and may even brag about it as a conquest to you. Do you not feel disrespected and emasculated as a man that the one and only woman you chose to spend you life with, is not even fully pure?

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you married? Were you a virgin when you got married? If you are still single, are you also still a virgin?

[Asker]

Single and still a virgin

[OlderAndWiser]

You have made a choice and others should respect you for that. You should not be attacked for making that choice. But you shouldn't be attacking others for their choices. When people are in relationships with partners who have prior sexual experience, they rarely have the thoughts that you would expect them to have, and you don't really know what it's like to be in that position.

[Apple1996]

Why would it bother a man to have a non virgin wife?

[kylee2437]

Why try and sabotage other peoples marriages?

[Asker]

I'm not trying to sabotage anything. I'm genuinely curious as to how men cope in this scenario because I feel I wouldn't. Am I just being insecure or am I being reasonable by saying this, I don't know.

[kylee2437]

You are abusive if you propose to a woman and then her body count becomes an issue afterwards.

[Asker]

I would never even propose to a woman if she had a body count.

[kylee2437]

To each it’s own. Trying to sabotage peoples marriages is ridiculous though

[Asker]

Like I said before, I'm not trying to sabotage people's marriages. I'm just voicing an opinion. I'm sorry if that offends you in some way.

[kylee2437]

Insinuating other men should be disgusted by their wife for having sex does sound like sabotaging. To each it’s own. It’s not offending me but I’m pointing out the obvious motive here

[Nikki1989]

Men that are that insecure shouldn't be getting married in the first place.

[Asker]

Does it not make the sex between husband and wife less intimate and special though? Seeing as though the wife has already fucked other guys, does this not make the husband less of a man? A cuck?