My friend hits her boyfriend. What should I do? (Page 2)

[Alex8736]

Don't get involved. He's a grown man and she's a grown woman

[Guccigabbana18]

Would you say the same were it a man beating up his girlfriend? Absolutely you should get involved.

[Iron_Man]

Nothing he’s a man he can take care of his own business and be in charge he can block he can hold her down. He can actually pin her and lay his body weight on her and she won’t like it

[SolitarySolace]

And the next day he will be struck with a lawsuit when she claims he attacked her

[Iron_Man]

@SolitarySolace holding somebody down, is not an attack when they’re attacking you

[SolitarySolace]

I know, but when it’s his word against hers the courts will always side with her and so will the police

[Iron_Man]

@SolitarySolace you gotta protect yourself she could come out you with a knife or a baseball bat or she could be a hard hitting strong woman you just can’t let her beat the crap out of you got to block maybe even hold her down you don’t want to get a broken nose, a busted out tooth

[SolitarySolace]

I agree a man needs to defend himself I’m just saying the cards will always be stacked against him. No one believed Johnny Depp until he proved himself innocent in court. That was first time a man has ever caught a women in her lies. Other men aren’t so lucky

[Asker]

He did get arrested actually. She hit him repeatedly in public, he hit back once and some guys across the street saw them and blamed him and beat him up for beating his girlfriend. He then got arrested. Didn't go to jail thankfully but spent the night being questioned. My friend then told me he might "hang himself" in jail from potentially losing her. I AM worried.

[Iron_Man]

Take this to a professional psychologist

[Guccigabbana18]

Bullshit. Women abusing men is just as psychologically devastating as the other way around. Sometimes it's impossible in those situations to defend oneself because they are being psychologically abused too.

[Iron_Man]

@Guccigabbana18 Thanks

[SolitarySolace]

I don’t think professional psychologists would be of much help here either. In Canada, Jordan Peterson is going to court with a Canadian regulator because the regulator thinks he needs to be re-educated for social media use or else lose his license. Psychologists in America will probably always side with the woman too

[Exterminatore]

Tell her boyfriend to leave her immediately.

[Exterminatore]

Or better yet call the police yourself next time you see it happen. It is domestic violence. Be sure to be clear that she was the aggressor and that she did all the physical abusing. Otherwise police love to take the man to jail instead, especially if the woman attempts to lie.

[driven159]

he needs to get some balls and get out of it

[Luckycharms12]

It's none of your business really even tho it isn't right

[joeND]

cowardly comment one day it might be you

[Luckycharms12]

That would be highly doubtful

[Guccigabbana18]

It is cowardly. It is totally her business.

[Luckycharms12]

No it's not their lives. don't get involved in other people's lives. She had nothing to gain they both will turn on her for doing the right thing nothing to gain only hassle

[Guccigabbana18]

You're wrong. If it was a man abusing his wife, people would be outraged and rightfully so. Even if both turn on her, it is the right thing to do.

[Asker]

@Guccigabbana18 I agree, it's abusive. It horrifies me when I see it in public. She banged on my window in the middle of the night to help her stalk his location but I did say no.

[Wise4myage]

Tell her how you feel and let it go at that.

[shades777]

double team him clearly its an unfair fight

[joeND]

double team? you read wrong 1 on 1