Your significant other gets a 15 year prison sentence, do you think you would wait and stay loyal to him or her or break up and find someone else?

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15 years is a very long time to go sexless, not holding someone in your arms etc. So think and answer the question honestly.

Sammy786 · Accepted Answer

I worked in that field, and you wouldn't believe how dumb women are. They will marry a guy serving life. Think about it. Nice phone calls, nice letters, and he can't beat you.

And I've seen ugly guys who get gorgeous strippers to visit them.

I've asked many guys if they are planning to get a place with their girlfriends when they get out. They ALL said: "No, they are just prison bitches."

A prison bitch is someone who just buys you things and sends you money every time you go to prison. And then when you get to a work release, the prison bitch has sex with you.

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

I’m out. 15 years I could find someone else that is too focused on us and our future to land himself in jail for that long. 15 years of missing out on a potential family because I want to wait for someone that is going to be a completely different person in 15 years which could be for good to for worse.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't t expect her to wait for me, 15 years is a long time to be apart from someone you love , it would be selfish of me to expect her to wait for me , so I would leave it up to her on what she wanted to do After my 15 years is up , I would contact her to see how she is doing , if she is still single and not settled down by then, then more than likely I would try to be part of her life again but if she moved on I would just move on myself

NHI2017 · Accepted Answer

I’d stay loyal. And visit every week, counting the days. Meanwhile seeing what I can do or find out about a reduced term.
it’s til death do us part, idc if she has cancer, can’t walk, Or is in jail.

It’s not over unless one of us dies, and even then i probably wouldn’t look for another

Pinay_ako · Answer

You’re right. 15 years is way too long. I will do my best to stay loyal. And ONLY if he’s not guilty of his offences and depends on the kind of offences he had committed.

AviatorTom · Answer

Unless we have children, I would not stay loyal. Tough decision though.

Apple1996 · Answer

Most likely would divorce and move on

ShellyB · Answer

It may depend what the crime was and how defensive of him I do or do not feel like if I think the sentence is fair or super unfair, that could influence my decision. But most likely, it would be too much. Being honest, I would be 40 or may as well say 41 when he got out and then I don't know how life would be after he got out, like if he could have a decent job, if he would have been changed a lot by prison and maybe abusive etc. My first instinct is to be loyal but it really is too much in this situation, I don't want to be melodramatic but it kind of ruins my life as well as his. JMO and sorry!

hahahmm · Answer

There's a difference between a girlfriend and a wife. If she got into trouble before I gave her a ring that's not my problem. I'd be moving on. Just like I wouldn't expect a girlfriend to wait for me if I went to prison. For a wife I would be loyal till death.

Anonymous · Answer

when i'm in love, i'm in deep... especially if i've been with the person for a long time. but if they did something bad enough to deserve a 15 year prison sentence, it will change my view on them as there's no coming back from that and i'd have to let go.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Honestly, to end up in prison for that long they had to have committed a pretty heinous act. But if they were falsely accussed, I’d definitely at least try and appeal the case however many times. I’d have the patience to deal with the appeals process for maybe around a couple years or so but if no progress was made, I’d give up and move on

DizzyDesii · Answer

If I believe he’s innocent and has a chance of being proven innocent then I’d wait around for a year. After that, i’m out. I hope they don’t get his booty in there

Screenwriter · Answer

A 15-year jail sentence would only occur with a serious conviction. You don't say if I know my SO is guilty or innocent. If I believed he wasn't, I would fight to prove his innocence. If I knew he was, there is no doubt that I would let him disappear from my life.

Anonymous · Answer

Break up and find someone else. If she's in prison for 15 years. That isn't by accident. She's trash!

andreasderjuengere · Answer

There is an Ex who served 2 years only (the local ''System'' punished her for not paying what was demanded as a government).

Anyhow - if she would have consulted me, we'd have found the escape gap.

My own life agenda is:

#1 - the slow one is left behind

#2 - I won't slow down for those who can't keep pace

It wasn't ''love'' anyway - we still are kind of friends, though.

Dinklex3 · Answer

If he was falsely accused and sentenced then I’d be there for him because I love him. If he’s guilty and committed the crime then hell no. Take responsibility for your actions. Bye 👋🏿

TrueConfection · Answer

It would depend on the crime, but I would think the reunion would be tough after 15 years apart.

richardcory · Answer

I would tell my SO to leave, my wife to divorce me. 15 years is too much of someone's life to wait, and after 15 years in prison, I wouldn't be the same person when I got out anyway

inhua · Answer

that depends if there is actually enough evidence there to prove they are guilty beyond reasonable doubt

Jazzy54 · Answer

Nah, I’d break things off, especially if he’s guilty of the crime.

Yannishka · Answer

GUESS THAT MEANS THIS IS GOODBYE THIS IS GOODBYE  'T WAS NICE TO KNOW YE TIME HAS COME AND GONE THIS IS GOODBYE sum 41

exitseven · Answer

I would break her out of the big house. We would go to New Jersey. Nobody would think to look there for us.

annabananna · Answer

Only if I strongly believed he was innocent. If you are dumb enough to do something to land you 15 years in prison away from your family than you were never loyal to your family.

JesseP1nk · Answer

I would move on. By the time she gets out i would be 54 :) I understand why women ask why he goes to prison. If he go to prison for murder, that mean that guy might be kind of psycho who one day decides to kill her also.

Brittanyroseee · Answer

I actually stayed with a guy who was in prison for 2 years lol

fonduegirl · Answer

Depends. They're doing jailtime for something stupid or heinous, for that many years. They don't deserve me.

Stoner710 · Answer

Find somebody else I don’t have time to wait 15 years for them to get the prison plus I own guns got even if I stayed with her she wouldn’t be allowed back in my house legally

nastyb · Answer

I would not be dating or married to someone who would go to jail. And I think many women settle when it comes to romance nowadays. It explains why I'm still single, I have high standards.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

Bye!

Anonymous · Answer

Hard to say not currently being in a relationship, but I suppose it would depend on what crime she committed, whether or not we had kids and how much I cared about her.

Unit1 · Answer

I am impatient. I can't wait and being love starved.

DermalPunch · Answer

Prisoners don't go sexless. There are conjugal visits. Depends what they did.

Anonymous · Answer

I would stay with him but keep things open until he gets out

Bricealan · Answer

After 15 years, you would have an asshole the size of a garbage can lid... who would want a 'wounded warrior?

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Women today look for any excuse to leave a relationship  without holding themselves responsible for picking the wrong men because of their obsession with drama

RealMarek · Answer

It depends on what led to her getting the sentence.

Meropatrick · Answer

It really depends on my relationship with them. If i really like them and they r worth the sacrifice i will Do without even thinking.

sheenagwapa · Answer

wait of course even more than that i'll wait

Drumlin2001 · Answer

I'd have a quiet peice on the side. Wouldn't let my kids know.

DaddyDiablo · Answer

Probably stay loyal tbh shit I don't know if I'm the only one in general fam so🤷

AdithyaR · Answer

Depends on the crime. Any violent crimes and I'd leave regardless of how long the sentence was.

shades777 · Answer

yet women do it, i think they fantasize about prison

Boomchakalaca · Answer

👋🏼 later boo. He probably deserved it too 😂

Nominal · Answer

I may tlk about it with partner, need to find another partner, i may get back after 15years, maybe not. Hard to tell.

driven159 · Answer

first off it would depend on what they are in prison for then go from there

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Find someone that's not a criminal.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

How bout conjugal visits?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't date criminals.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Two words. Conjugal visit!

Daniela1982 · Answer

He can bite me!

gothbxtch · Answer

what did he get the sentence for?

msc545 · Answer

I'm gone from that.

sheikalana · Answer

I think it depends on the crime.

boobliker · Answer

not at my age

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