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15 years is a very long time to go sexless, not holding someone in your arms etc. So think and answer the question honestly.
I worked in that field, and you wouldn't believe how dumb women are. They will marry a guy serving life. Think about it. Nice phone calls, nice letters, and he can't beat you.
And I've seen ugly guys who get gorgeous strippers to visit them.
I've asked many guys if they are planning to get a place with their girlfriends when they get out. They ALL said: "No, they are just prison bitches."
A prison bitch is someone who just buys you things and sends you money every time you go to prison. And then when you get to a work release, the prison bitch has sex with you.
I’m out. 15 years I could find someone else that is too focused on us and our future to land himself in jail for that long. 15 years of missing out on a potential family because I want to wait for someone that is going to be a completely different person in 15 years which could be for good to for worse.
I wouldn't t expect her to wait for me, 15 years is a long time to be apart from someone you love , it would be selfish of me to expect her to wait for me , so I would leave it up to her on what she wanted to do After my 15 years is up , I would contact her to see how she is doing , if she is still single and not settled down by then, then more than likely I would try to be part of her life again but if she moved on I would just move on myself
I’d stay loyal. And visit every week, counting the days. Meanwhile seeing what I can do or find out about a reduced term.
it’s til death do us part, idc if she has cancer, can’t walk, Or is in jail.
It’s not over unless one of us dies, and even then i probably wouldn’t look for another
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You’re right. 15 years is way too long. I will do my best to stay loyal. And ONLY if he’s not guilty of his offences and depends on the kind of offences he had committed.
Unless we have children, I would not stay loyal. Tough decision though.
Most likely would divorce and move on
It may depend what the crime was and how defensive of him I do or do not feel like if I think the sentence is fair or super unfair, that could influence my decision. But most likely, it would be too much. Being honest, I would be 40 or may as well say 41 when he got out and then I don't know how life would be after he got out, like if he could have a decent job, if he would have been changed a lot by prison and maybe abusive etc. My first instinct is to be loyal but it really is too much in this situation, I don't want to be melodramatic but it kind of ruins my life as well as his. JMO and sorry!
There's a difference between a girlfriend and a wife. If she got into trouble before I gave her a ring that's not my problem. I'd be moving on. Just like I wouldn't expect a girlfriend to wait for me if I went to prison. For a wife I would be loyal till death.
when i'm in love, i'm in deep... especially if i've been with the person for a long time. but if they did something bad enough to deserve a 15 year prison sentence, it will change my view on them as there's no coming back from that and i'd have to let go.
Honestly, to end up in prison for that long they had to have committed a pretty heinous act. But if they were falsely accussed, I’d definitely at least try and appeal the case however many times. I’d have the patience to deal with the appeals process for maybe around a couple years or so but if no progress was made, I’d give up and move on
If I believe he’s innocent and has a chance of being proven innocent then I’d wait around for a year. After that, i’m out. I hope they don’t get his booty in there
A 15-year jail sentence would only occur with a serious conviction. You don't say if I know my SO is guilty or innocent. If I believed he wasn't, I would fight to prove his innocence. If I knew he was, there is no doubt that I would let him disappear from my life.
Break up and find someone else. If she's in prison for 15 years. That isn't by accident. She's trash!
There is an Ex who served 2 years only (the local ''System'' punished her for not paying what was demanded as a government).
Anyhow - if she would have consulted me, we'd have found the escape gap.
My own life agenda is:
#1 - the slow one is left behind
#2 - I won't slow down for those who can't keep pace
It wasn't ''love'' anyway - we still are kind of friends, though.
If he was falsely accused and sentenced then I’d be there for him because I love him.
If he’s guilty and committed the crime then hell no. Take responsibility for your actions. Bye 👋🏿
It would depend on the crime, but I would think the reunion would be tough after 15 years apart.
I would tell my SO to leave, my wife to divorce me. 15 years is too much of someone's life to wait, and after 15 years in prison, I wouldn't be the same person when I got out anyway
that depends if there is actually enough evidence there to prove they are guilty beyond reasonable doubt
Nah, I’d break things off, especially if he’s guilty of the crime.
GUESS THAT MEANS THIS IS GOODBYE
THIS IS GOODBYE
'T WAS NICE TO KNOW YE
TIME HAS COME AND GONE
THIS IS GOODBYE
sum 41
I would break her out of the big house. We would go to New Jersey. Nobody would think to look there for us.
Only if I strongly believed he was innocent. If you are dumb enough to do something to land you 15 years in prison away from your family than you were never loyal to your family.
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