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Polygamy or monogamy?

The relationship is going in different directions. He wants 2 wives/women/partners, whatever you want to call it. I’m good with just 1 man. We’ve been together for 11 years. We agreed recently that we just want different things. This man is my first love, first everything. I know eventually we will go our separate ways but for now we’ve agreed to be together until he meets someone else. Someone who can and will give him what he wants. (I tried the polygamy thing with him last year, it ended in disaster). I know it’ll probably hurt way more when we break up for him to be with someone else. I cannot bring myself to leave or stay away. He is my best friend and the only person I’ve ever loved like this. We got together at 15 years old, so you can imagine how hard it would be to distance yourself. I don’t really have a question. It feels good to talk about this in a place where lots of people are open to talk about anything. I guess I’m interested in hearing any advice or opinions. What would you do?

Polygamy or monogamy?
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