I'm 20 and in college and my boyfriend graduated we dated for a year and now are in ldr. ?

[Anonymous]

I've been in comitted relationship with my boyfriend for more than a year now I'll turn 20 this year and will be attending last year of my college but he has already graduated and working. We are currently in ldr with seeing each other once a month everything is going fine but I feel like I'm missing out on things, I feel like I'm too young to commit just yet. I do love him but I don't know if we will ever be able to finish ldr. He mentions us taking it set by set but I feel like I'll miss out on my college life because of the ldr. Am I being naive?

[petitedollbabee]

No, what you’re feeling is okay. I would feel the same way if I were in your shoes, and I would end the ldr. You’re young and in college. Now is the time to experiment with and experience lots of things, you have the rest of your life to commit and have a serious relationship. You don’t need to rush to settle down. Especially with someone that you barely see:

[Jamie05rhs]

No, you're not being naive. You're being a selfish whore. You should have never dated him if you weren't willing to stick by his side. It's not his fault that he's ahead of you in life. Shit, lady; you have a man that loves you and he wants to stay together and he's willing to wait and let you catch up with him!! What the hell is wrong with you?

[Luckycharms12]

It's okay to feel that way but really not missing out