24 F I’m having panic attacks because my boyfriend used to look at men and women including trans women? I feel insecure what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I’m beginning to hate my body and feel at war with myself. This feeling is ugly and horrible.. it makes me feel like my body isn’t good enough for me and all I’m scared of happening is he’s going to cheat on me for just anyone now. I’ve never had panic attacks like this but now all I’m seeing is those images he had on this Twitter account and it’s stabbing through me like a knife and I feel super insecure about my body. I’ve also been cheated on in the past a lot or left for someone else.

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9 mo

It was before we got together but either way it still HURTS regardless and I’m sensitive overall and have trust issues due to many of my exes cheating on me and the sad part among all is they cheated on me through social media or through work and that’s what terrifies me I know a relationship needs trust but it’s so scary and risky putting your heart out this day and age but I care about him and hope he’ll prove that I can trust him I’m just anxious, I may get therapy😔

[ohsheeT]

Stop stop stop stop stop stop what are you doing stop it look at you or you and only you can change you only you can make yourself happy because you're the only person on the inside of you and only you can make yourself sad because you are the only person on the inside of you nobody else can do any of those for you except for you what do you want realize if you want to change your body you can do anything you want it's going to take hard work it's well worth it if that's what you want success is beautiful thing but don't start something and not finish it

The 100% honest what is it do you not like about your body do not compare your body to anybody else's body ever your body is your body you make it the way you want to make it but don't look at other people and say I wish or I dream or I want or I'm ugly because you're not ugly you're you there's no such thing as ugly ugly only comes from the inside
You want to do something for your body commit yourself 30 minutes a day for 30 days walk any fast pace for 30 minutes a day don't drink any sugar Waters drink lots of good water and eat healthier foods 30 minutes a day for 30 days you know how fast that goes by and watch the transformation that happens you will tone every inch of your body that's your first step you want to step two I can tell you that too actually that is step two step one is quit beating yourself up if you're going to do something do something about it but don't beat yourself up that doesn't help anything

But it does give you good excuse not to try because you're just so down and out because of whatever reasons you want stop it if you want change change you're the one person that can do it just commit 30 minutes a day for 30 days I bet you a dollar right now you will not take this challenge because you don't mean what you're saying make this bet with me prove me wrong

[BoopBoopBeep]

2 things, and they're both going to sound harsh but tough love and all

1) get a mountain of therapy for all your unresolved trust issues, because no matter how many people before the current "him" cheated on you, that's not his fault, and treating a relationship like it is will lead nowhere fast.

1a) blaming yourself/hating your body because your man craves penis is beyond typical irrational behavior. get therapy for that to. what do you think you're going to grow a penis to please some scrub?

2) dump him. He's going to cheat on you. If he's into women, men, AND transexuals, there's too many moving parts there you're never going to have.

[J0sie]

If he is making you feel like less of a person then you don’t need him! You need someone who will love you and not look at anyone else!

[JamesRandiDebates]

Find yourself a guy that isn't a fag.