How do you react when your lover playfully demands: Pay attention to me PLEASE but you're currently doing something that's not urgent but fun for you?

[meetkitty123]

Say you and your partner have a good balance of giving each other respectful person space and time but on this particular day your lover is playfully hyper, bored and longing for your attention while you are already engaged in a casual activity which you enjoy. How do you react?

(Ya I'm bored and FRISKY beyond words! currently I just finished a heavy 2 week work load of studying and orientation for a new job and I finished a whole day early and now with the sudden free time which was so foreign to me during these past 2 weeks I'm hyper and I don't know what to do with myself

(which is why I hit GaG) and my lovely boyfriend is currently engaged in one of his favorite hobbies. I'm doing my best to leave him be but I'll admit I did call him and text him a few silly messages trying to see if he'd quit his task a little earlier...

He was sweet but kindly let me know he like to finish what's he's up too... Oh well so Here I am on GaG.)

Get Annoyed

Laugh and give them attention.

Ignore them for the moment (Its my personal time anyways) and respond after your done..

Respond lovingly to them but inform them you like to finish what you are currently doing

[OlderAndWiser]

My fiancée does not normally demand attention so if she told me she needed attention today, I would stop whatever I was doing and give her my attention.

[meetkitty123]

So awesome 👍

[Rei13]

My boyfriend does this to me sometimes and I will tease him about being needy. But honestly even after a year of dating I’ll stop what I’m doing and give him attention. Sometimes I’ll go back to what I was doing to mess with him and other times give him my full undivided attention. But ultimately he comes first and generally I can always go back to what I am doing later

[rosemilk]

i'd probably stop and go get some food and drinks with him. quality time matters too. and i'd be concerned on why he's asking me to pay attention to him and wonder if i have been distant or not lately

[matchrestore]

Depends how often she does it and/or how often I get to do what I'm doing. If it's something I do most days and she interrupts me every once in a while that's no issue, but if it's something i can only do a few times a year and/or the interruptions are constant I would be annoyed.

[meetkitty123]

I am a girl who almost never gets tired of her lovers attention however I fully understand the healthy need for space. I didn't annoy him he was very sweet and at the same time I know how much I can goof and when to back off. But he still checked up on me a few times between his task

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Laugh and give them attention. I like the picture with the two kitties so sweet, thanks for sharing :-) <3

[meetkitty123]

Thank you 🙂

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@meetkitty123 You're welcome :)

[Lynx122]

It depends on the context of the relationship. How often does it happen etc. In your example I think I'd go with b, c or d it kinda dapends on the moment how much energy I have and how important what I'm doing is etc.

[Nick1976G]

Usually I'm the one craving the attention, but when she wants my attention, it's not even a question.

[meetkitty123]

That's sweet

[ImalwaysrightOK]

I ❤️ that meme with those 2 cats. I would love to pay attention to someone i care about.

[meetkitty123]

Thank you
I too love to get and give attention

[KrakenAttackin]

As you might imagine, I don't do well with attention hoe's.

[meetkitty123]

I said your lover not a hoe but someone you're actually dating omg 🤣

[meetkitty123]

Omg @KrakenAttackin telling a girl dating wouldn't receive this sort of treatment:

https://images.app.goo.gl/yXGgLNfhvgzt7EXo9

[meetkitty123]

typo
Tell me please* a girl dating you* wouldn't receive this sort of treatment

[KrakenAttackin]

@meetkitty123. Mmmmm...50/50 on that 🤔

[exitseven]

I would laugh and give her attention. I know there will be sex incmvolved at some point

[larry69]

Do as requested. Women need attention when she needs it. Give ot to her

[Jltakk]

I struggle to pay attention to anything, much less someone else.

[Hithere4567]

I give her my full attention

[meetkitty123]

Nice 🙂.

[Hithere4567]

Because that's the most fun. 🙂

[Andres77]

Talk about the last book she read

[meetkitty123]

That's sweet

[WhitneySnow]

Either the second or the fourth option

[Jamie05rhs]

I would pay attention to her! 😇

[PeterLegg91]

Lol 😆

[Anonymous]

Okay?