How do you react when your lover playfully demands: Pay attention to me PLEASE but you're currently doing something that's not urgent but fun for you?

Question

Say you and your partner have a good balance of giving each other respectful person space and time but on this particular day your lover is playfully hyper, bored and longing for your attention while you are already engaged in a casual activity which you enjoy. How do you react?

(Ya I'm bored and FRISKY beyond words! currently I just finished a heavy 2 week work load of studying and orientation for a new job and I finished a whole day early and now with the sudden free time which was so foreign to me during these past 2 weeks I'm hyper and I don't know what to do with myself

(which is why I hit GaG) and my lovely boyfriend is currently engaged in one of his favorite hobbies. I'm doing my best to leave him be but I'll admit I did call him and text him a few silly messages trying to see if he'd quit his task a little earlier...

He was sweet but kindly let me know he like to finish what's he's up too... Oh well so Here I am on GaG.)

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

My boyfriend does this to me sometimes and I will tease him about being needy. But honestly even after a year of dating I’ll stop what I’m doing and give him attention. Sometimes I’ll go back to what I was doing to mess with him and other times give him my full undivided attention. But ultimately he comes first and generally I can always go back to what I am doing later

rosemilk · Accepted Answer

i'd probably stop and go get some food and drinks with him. quality time matters too. and i'd be concerned on why he's asking me to pay attention to him and wonder if i have been distant or not lately

matchrestore · Accepted Answer

Depends how often she does it and/or how often I get to do what I'm doing. If it's something I do most days and she interrupts me every once in a while that's no issue, but if it's something i can only do a few times a year and/or the interruptions are constant I would be annoyed.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

My fiancée does not normally demand attention so if she told me she needed attention today, I would stop whatever I was doing and give her my attention.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Laugh and give them attention. I like the picture with the two kitties so sweet, thanks for sharing :-) <3

Lynx122 · Answer

It depends on the context of the relationship. How often does it happen etc. In your example I think I'd go with b, c or d it kinda dapends on the moment how much energy I have and how important what I'm doing is etc.

Nick1976G · Answer

Usually I'm the one craving the attention, but when she wants my attention, it's not even a question.

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

I ❤️ that meme with those 2 cats. I would love to pay attention to someone i care about.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

As you might imagine, I don't do well with attention hoe's.

exitseven · Answer

I would laugh and give her attention. I know there will be sex incmvolved at some point

larry69 · Answer

Do as requested. Women need attention when she needs it. Give ot to her

Jltakk · Answer

I struggle to pay attention to anything, much less someone else.

Hithere4567 · Answer

I give her my full attention

Andres77 · Answer

Talk about the last book she read

WhitneySnow · Answer

Either the second or the fourth option

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I would pay attention to her! 😇

PeterLegg91 · Answer

Lol 😆

Anonymous · Answer

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