I'm not trying to be mean, there's a reason we're attracted to the people we are. We make choices both consciously & subconciously & there's reasons we make the choices we do. I used to be a fixed, subconcuously attracted to damaged lady's & try to fix them.. Not all men are like this, & the only common denominator is you. Understand you're worth more, where do you think men like this are? They're at home, work, socials, donating their time in their communities etc..
I wish polygamy was legal in all the countries. It's every man's dream to have multiple wifes and girlfriends including myself.
But No it's hard to handle multiple women / wives at a time these days. You know women are educated and smarter. That's why I prefer to live a non-controversial life in a monogamous relationship. I have to spend rest of my life with one woman even though it's boring. 😞 All men are not same.
You’re a lame and you know it. Embarrassing goofy. And look at you, you’re not even attractive how could you ever expect multiple women to want to date you 🤣🤣 delusional 🤡. There’s your reality check.
We should stop generalising and putting everyone in the same basket.
Men, women, monogamous, poly... Everyone is different and it doesn't matter what you prefer as long as you find a partner who's on the same page as you.
You got it all wrong, you're talking in general as if you knew all men on earth... Let me just tell you that everything that you have mentioned can work the opposite way PLUS the woman can be a demon!
Well what can I say, if we are all "demons" as you say, then you men have taught us well because we are mirroring your behavior and what you guys do to us.
I never said that all women are demons, i said A WOMAN can be a demon, it means some women can be like demons... We haven't taught you a thing, if you're a good person than you will always be a good person and if you're bad than you will always be bad... You can have a bad experience and learn from it but you will always be that good girl waiting for the right man to come in your life... It's all about your upbrinring and how do you see things in life and the people around you who influence you... If there was a woman who reflects my behavior and learns what i teach her than i'll marry her right now and will love only her forever and take good care of her, but it seems that each person is different and have his/her own character, they can be somewhat influenced by you but will never be a copy of you cause they will always have their own personality...
I'm not taking it personal.. But when you say "men are not" it means all men.. As if we are some kind of hive mind, when not even most of us are like that, just a small handful of shitty men.. Your question just based on how it's worded is sexist as hell. It's the equivalent of me saying "women aren't capable of being logical" since I didn't say most, or some, or a few, it strongly indicates that I believe all women are like that.. See what I did there? It's the same concept.
I can tell you that there are some men that are monogamous, in fact there are even some of us that open up the wife's side of the marriage, with no desire to open ours
wow you are way off base lady. i've had that asshole cheat on me before and she still does it. i've gotten into blowouts with that asshole about it before but it does no good like talking to a brick wall with her
This has nothing to do with wanting children or not. I'm just speaking on men's unnatural desire and lack of interest in monogamy due to their human nature as males as most men do not want to be with one woman because men are visual creatures and they have a much higher sex drive than women and they are also more shallow than women.
This has EVERYTHING to do with wanting kids or not. I know guys whove stayed with one woman all their lives, never having kids. And I've known guys whove been with one woman, and had one two, three or more kids
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I'm not trying to be mean, there's a reason we're attracted to the people we are. We make choices both consciously & subconciously & there's reasons we make the choices we do. I used to be a fixed, subconcuously attracted to damaged lady's & try to fix them.. Not all men are like this, & the only common denominator is you. Understand you're worth more, where do you think men like this are? They're at home, work, socials, donating their time in their communities etc..
I wish polygamy was legal in all the countries. It's every man's dream to have multiple wifes and girlfriends including myself.
But No it's hard to handle multiple women / wives at a time these days. You know women are educated and smarter. That's why I prefer to live a non-controversial life in a monogamous relationship. I have to spend rest of my life with one woman even though it's boring. 😞 All men are not same.
*every idiots dream
@Aphrodite801 fuck off !
You’re a lame and you know it. Embarrassing goofy. And look at you, you’re not even attractive how could you ever expect multiple women to want to date you 🤣🤣 delusional 🤡. There’s your reality check.
We should stop generalising and putting everyone in the same basket.
Men, women, monogamous, poly... Everyone is different and it doesn't matter what you prefer as long as you find a partner who's on the same page as you.
You got it all wrong, you're talking in general as if you knew all men on earth...
Let me just tell you that everything that you have mentioned can work the opposite way PLUS the woman can be a demon!
Well what can I say, if we are all "demons" as you say, then you men have taught us well because we are mirroring your behavior and what you guys do to us.
I never said that all women are demons, i said A WOMAN can be a demon, it means some women can be like demons...
We haven't taught you a thing, if you're a good person than you will always be a good person and if you're bad than you will always be bad...
You can have a bad experience and learn from it but you will always be that good girl waiting for the right man to come in your life...
It's all about your upbrinring and how do you see things in life and the people around you who influence you...
If there was a woman who reflects my behavior and learns what i teach her than i'll marry her right now and will love only her forever and take good care of her, but it seems that each person is different and have his/her own character, they can be somewhat influenced by you but will never be a copy of you cause they will always have their own personality...
I have seen women being Demons towards other women too. Did we teach u that too?
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Lol comical. Just because you talk to and hang out with shitty disloyal men doesn't mean that we are all that way...
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Just because I said that men are naturally non-monogamous, this doesn't make them bad people you're taking as far too personal.
I'm not taking it personal.. But when you say "men are not" it means all men.. As if we are some kind of hive mind, when not even most of us are like that, just a small handful of shitty men.. Your question just based on how it's worded is sexist as hell. It's the equivalent of me saying "women aren't capable of being logical" since I didn't say most, or some, or a few, it strongly indicates that I believe all women are like that.. See what I did there? It's the same concept.
And for the record I don't believe that women can't be logical. My wife is highly logical.. It was an example of the logical fallacy you use.
Men are monogamous, it's just promiscuous people who aren't. And I'm perfectly happy with them continuing to steer clear of me.
I can tell you that there are some men that are monogamous, in fact there are even some of us that open up the wife's side of the marriage, with no desire to open ours
man's nature? anyway that is not an excuse to cheat.
That's because the tables are turning
Most men (including myself) are monogamous. Your entire premise is bs.
I dunno where you got the idea that men are all poly, but thats absurd.
wow you are way off base lady. i've had that asshole cheat on me before and she still does it. i've gotten into blowouts with that asshole about it before but it does no good like talking to a brick wall with her
I've never cheated on a woman, I would say 70% - 80% of men don't cheat.
Your question is based on a false premis. Some men are monogamous and some aren't, just like women.
No the same thing don't applies to you, being a ho is a bad thing, a woman is like a lock. :)
Some men are, some aren't. Women cheat just as often as men.
You can find monogamous men. It's all about kids. It all comes down to, do you two want kids, or not
This has nothing to do with wanting children or not. I'm just speaking on men's unnatural desire and lack of interest in monogamy due to their human nature as males as most men do not want to be with one woman because men are visual creatures and they have a much higher sex drive than women and they are also more shallow than women.
This has EVERYTHING to do with wanting kids or not. I know guys whove stayed with one woman all their lives, never having kids. And I've known guys whove been with one woman, and had one two, three or more kids
@bigdog1989 Nope. I'm a monogamous straight male, and I don't want any kids.
If I wanted kids, I'd still be monogamous. Wanting kids or not has nothing to do with it.
Do what you want. Just don't get upset when the rare guy who wants to in a committed relationship passes on by because of it.
We may not be monogamous but we are still human beings who make deep emotional connections through intimacy
Since men are not monogamy’s? Where the hell you get that from? I’m married and have never cheated.
Lol. Men are monogamous to women who are monogous. Wanna be a slut to another slut be a slut
Men aren't monogamous because of reproduction not some social brainwashing.
This sounds like an excuse for you to be a slut