How do narcissists react when you level up in life?

[Anonymous]

Say you were in a relationship and you treated them well. Things happened and they broke up with you but they still hit you up and you just avoid them because they want to remain friends and you’re not emotionally equip to handle it. Since then you get promoted and lose a bunch of weight. How would they react to that or what would go off in their head? I know I shouldn’t care let me emphasize that, but I think a flex wouldn’t hurt considering all the hell that I’ve gone through and my sacrifices for them.

[DaveJord]

So, a real and true narcissist would not give a rat's ass about anything you did or didn't do once they were through with you. Thats because a true narcissist does not have the emotional capacity to really feel or think about things in the same way as non-narcissists.

The difference between and norm person that just moves on and honestly does not care what you do with your life, is that a narcissist is convinced they were too good for you at the start, and now even more convinced that you are beneath them today. If you give a narcissist any indication that you care, they will laugh at you. The fact that you lost the weight and promoted, is only evidence of how much you value the greatness of the narcissists, and even though it would feed the ego of the narcissists... they would not really value you any more or less than they already did.
They would never get back with someone that they have already dumped... they could not lower their standards to do anything like that... too much self-respect to go back to someone they already ran through and dumped.

I would get over this person and not even think about the things that this question suggests you are going through. Any and everything you have accomplished you a have done to improve upon yourself and for yourself. So, move on with your life and stop looking back, because the future is much brighter.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Nothing would go off in their head because you're a bit player in the story of their lives.

Congrats on your promo and weight loss though :)

[Vesuvius87]

They search for you and keep you as a supply but will ditch or ghost you when they don't need you anymore. You'll always be a commodity to them, an object of value, not a human.

[Nishi-Mishi]

They react by reaching out to you and trying to come back in or by causing a drama if you allow that to happen.
I was in one and I learnt my lesson.

[Anonymous]

You mean an actual medically diagnosed narcissist or just someone you don't like narcissist? The word "narcissist" is used a lot online to describe someone they don't like or agree with.

[Asker]

Someone with narcissistic tendencies, I cannot say they have full blown narcissism though they exhibit many of the traits of it.

[spartan55]

They won't care, I promise.

[Cherkez]

They have breakdown