If I were him, sorry, but no oral, no me. Her letting me pleasure her orally increases chances for me to stay with her for good. Your weight your weight. You is you.
My wife is about your size and we have sex with no problem. He needs to get over himself because someone else will find you attractive if he abandons you.
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Physical attraction is important, most girls will not date unattractive, fat, or short guys too. But he should have been more empathetic and you should consult a dietician to maintain a healthy weight.
Nobody can make you do anything you dont want to do, but you mentioned that he's in shape- it makes sense that he would want to be with someone who is also in shape.
But it doesn't matter that you used to be in shape, you're choosing to let yourself go... that's going to be a problem for your healthy partner. I'm not going to say he's an asshole for that. Even if he was a lazy/out of shape guy giving you a hard time for your weight, people still have the right to leave someone for whatever reason they want.
But he isn't overweight and it sounds like he's willing to help you, and encourage you to lose weight. If you won't do that, then you're just going to have accept the possibility of losing him.
On a more serious note, what have you been eating? It's not normal to get so huge even without exercise. Do you get the right nutrients? Do you avoid toxins? One thing I keep proving again to myself is the importance of zinc. Even when u are huge amounts of organ meats, even when I stopped exercising and sweating, not taking zinc made me feel lazy. Magnesium.. boron... pine pollen and long Jack and 20 others... did not fix it. I felt wasted all the time... and not even my guided meditation did not help. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dG5cZzbKvW0 ... simply for zinc deficiency... now the biggest reason is overabundance of copper in milk. I drink like a gallon of goat milk and sometimes more than 2 gallons... per day.. it can deplete zinc in my body as I understand with excess copper. Just like excess calcium lowers your magnesium levels and excess sodium can fuck with potassium...
The point is, there is no amount of exercise that will fix my zinc deficiency. And when I take zinc I'm flying around like I'm a walking breathing flying erection.
So see for yourself, diet matters. It is never normal to get as fat as you got, and it isn't all about exercise. Just don't show this to @D_Bone_Steak because he's not afraid to admit that fat chicks are offputting.
But I'd probably do you if you gave me a VR headset that turns you into the old version of you.
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If I were him, sorry, but no oral, no me. Her letting me pleasure her orally increases chances for me to stay with her for good. Your weight your weight. You is you.
Beyond his turn off, you should seriously ask yourself why you've give up in maintaining a healthy body weight.
He doesn’t like fat girls.
Simple solution. Lose weight
My wife is about your size and we have sex with no problem. He needs to get over himself because someone else will find you attractive if he abandons you.
Physical attraction is important, most girls will not date unattractive, fat, or short guys too. But he should have been more empathetic and you should consult a dietician to maintain a healthy weight.
I don't know why but people tend to let themselves go, as they get older
Your question is very confusing. You say boyfriend dumped you. Then you start talking about your husband.
You just posted the same question with a boyfriend.
Which is it?
gtfo troll
Let him go and be happy about it, and please if he comes back dump his sorry ass, he doesn’t deserve u sister
his loss you look good and im sorry for all that
Take a pill to go to sleep and never wake up
Even heavier I think you're still quite pretty
That's his right
He’s very good looking and a lot of fit girls want him.
Good for him
Do you guys fight a lot? It seems like there's more to the story.
Unless maybe you just aren't willing to put in effort to lose the weight
I’ll be honest I’m not too excited about the idea…
Nobody can make you do anything you dont want to do, but you mentioned that he's in shape- it makes sense that he would want to be with someone who is also in shape.
I was in shape but I honestly just got tired of the work it took to stay thin. I wish he wouldn’t make me lose the weight honestly.
But it doesn't matter that you used to be in shape, you're choosing to let yourself go... that's going to be a problem for your healthy partner. I'm not going to say he's an asshole for that. Even if he was a lazy/out of shape guy giving you a hard time for your weight, people still have the right to leave someone for whatever reason they want.
But he isn't overweight and it sounds like he's willing to help you, and encourage you to lose weight. If you won't do that, then you're just going to have accept the possibility of losing him.
He does work me out in the garage and I’ll admit I’m lazy about it.
Have you tried getting him a VR headset and programming it to show him the old version of you while he fucks you?
On a more serious note, what have you been eating? It's not normal to get so huge even without exercise. Do you get the right nutrients? Do you avoid toxins? One thing I keep proving again to myself is the importance of zinc. Even when u are huge amounts of organ meats, even when I stopped exercising and sweating, not taking zinc made me feel lazy. Magnesium.. boron... pine pollen and long Jack and 20 others... did not fix it. I felt wasted all the time... and not even my guided meditation did not help.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dG5cZzbKvW0
... simply for zinc deficiency... now the biggest reason is overabundance of copper in milk. I drink like a gallon of goat milk and sometimes more than 2 gallons... per day.. it can deplete zinc in my body as I understand with excess copper. Just like excess calcium lowers your magnesium levels and excess sodium can fuck with potassium...
The point is, there is no amount of exercise that will fix my zinc deficiency. And when I take zinc I'm flying around like I'm a walking breathing flying erection.
So see for yourself, diet matters. It is never normal to get as fat as you got, and it isn't all about exercise. Just don't show this to @D_Bone_Steak because he's not afraid to admit that fat chicks are offputting.
But I'd probably do you if you gave me a VR headset that turns you into the old version of you.
Look at this. I randomly came up with the BS idea yesterday and now I stumble upon this article that came out as soon as VR even became a thing: www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...make-sex-enjoyable.html