Have you ever had a partner do something really bad in your dreams and then after you wake up you're mad at them?

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Like in your dreams they cheat on you but irl they haven't but you still feel traumatized or angry about the dream and take it out on your partner? If you've never done that, have you ever had that done to you? here's some reddit posts i saw that made me think of this question lol

Emyyyy · Accepted Answer

That’s so stupid. Dreams are all fake. If you can fly in your dreams. It means they’re fake!! 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

HOWEVER! ☝️!
It Is said; that a persons subconscious can pick up your thoughts. So if you’re a man and you plan on cheating on your wife, or you have thought of cheating on your wife. Or you have a crush on another woman. If you constantly think about another woman. If you secretly use porn. If you pretend your current girlfriend is another woman when having sex with her.

Your partner will be able to pick up these thoughts in form of dreams. So yes, we actually CAN read eachother’s mind. But in a subconscious manner. It’s not direct, and it’s not perceived immediately. But you can pick up someone’s thoughts sometimes.

I used to have nightmares of my underage bratty sister loosing her virginity in her room next to mine. Come to find out a year later that she was in fact having sex while underage in her room, next to my room sneaking her boyfriend into our home through her window, putting the whole family in danger. Isn’t that great 👍, my dreams were true.

So I’m sure that this imbecile was probably fantasizing about doing things to us as teenagers. And his thoughts were being picked up by us.

Im 100% sure of this. If you feel like your partner is cheating and you constantly dream about them cheating. I don't know 😬 I personally think it’s likely that he’s cheating. Or other forms of cheating. Like crushing on someone else, or thinking about someone else. Or watching porn. Just something. Because your subconscious is picking it up.

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Sour-rose · Accepted Answer

Yes, he's done pissed me off in my dreams. It's stupid I know, but you don't understand my dumb fuk husband. So we're playing apex legends in my dreams. It's a kill or be killed and you're winning or out? 30 other players on the same map with their own abilities. One girl makes a portal to somewhere else, and can use it as a trap. So i took the bait for this trap and it left off a cliff. I told him over mic "Do not follow me, I fell for a trap." 🫠... guess what this dumbass did? Oh, there's a trios mode and a duos mode. So in my dream it was me and him...

I made sure he never forget how dumb he was... in my dream.

Jaarraduun · Accepted Answer

I have had it done to me, but never done that to a partner.

My last ex and my current partner both had dreams where I cheated or left them for someone else. My ex was an extremely jealous little German chick, so she was fuming for at at least two weeks from what I recall even though I hadn't done anything wrong. And my current partner got super angry about it too, again, haven't ever done anything to even allude to that, yet here we are. Thankfully, my current partner was only angry for about a day, then felt bad about it and apologized. Much more healthy minded then my ex lol.

But I digress. They both have had trama in their pasts. My ex because a victim of her trama, utter refusal to even try moving forward based on fears. While my current partner is looking to overcome it. It's a slow process, but well get their one day. In the mean time, just gotta walk with her one step at a time, be supportive, calming, point things out in a well timed manner, but also the voice of reason when needed.

Go at there pass if their willing to face their trama. Support them and move forward together if you love 'em.

How that helps my guy. Good luck out there.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I am unable to say for sure because I don't what dreams are. Are they simply a reminder of our fears? Lord Orgasmos said that our soul uses the coom jar to enter the Orgasmosphere while our physical vehicles are asleep.

coachTanthony · Answer

No but it's hilarious if people do.

blueonblack22 · Answer

I had a nightmare a few days ago about a different problem I am dealing with (and recovering from) a few days ago. It was very detailed and I don’t dream often so I remembered it.

It shook me up for a while. But I know it’s just my brain processing information, past traumas and anxiety. It’s not real nor my “destiny”. I have control in my personal life to prevent the nightmare from happening in real life.

The “cheating” nightmare is really just your subconscious anxiety. It can be therapeutic because it’s a release on what’s going on upstairs.

If you are “angry” I recommend telling a trusted friend about it. Someone who can help put it in perspective. That’s what I did with my nightmare.

Also @Still-alive why did you force everybody to post publicly on this? I would have given the details of my nightmare if I could have posted anon. Not comfortable posting about it publicly though.

Chevy1_kb · Answer

I was with my ex for 3 years i only ever had 3 good dreams about him the rest of them where bad ones that he was cheating or i have walked into his house and caught him fucking a bunch of women me and his mum have chased them all out or he wit he says he going out a look for him and he's shagging more birds wich in ma dreams that also giving me a clue that he was cheating so it turns out he was cheating for 2 years of it so never misunderstand the powers of dreams and thoughts they all mean something especially if you have the same dreams over and over it mostly will happen

electromagnetic · Answer

I used to have this ex of mine, loved him to pieces (still do) but for some odd reason, dream me hated his guts.
I don’t dream often and when I do, they are usually accompanied with a lot of talking and movement. Like clockwork, when I dreamt about him, it was never good dreams. We used to joke a lot about dream me hating him. I’m not sure why. We didn’t even break up sour.

xutumx · Answer

Never got mad, was sad. But I just tell my partner about my dream & usually he assures me he loves me & he wouldn’t do that which makes me feel better. He’s also had dreams like that & he didn’t get mad but he would get sad & super insecure & start saying stuff like he doesn’t feel like enough to me and all this but I tell him I wouldn’t do that & try to assure him

petitedollbabee · Answer

I’ve had many dreams of my partner doing horrible things to me, but I never wake up mad. I wake up traumatised 😅 but some cuddles and reassurance from my partner gets rid of that.

WiccanLady2023 · Answer

No because I'm intelligent enough to comprehend dreams isn't reality.  Feel sorry for the dimwits who can't.

ChooChooHaha · Answer

Mad, no. Sad, yeah. But then we hash it out, and it's ok.

Guido · Answer

My wife has had a few if those dreams and she wakes up with the feelings and it actually takes her time to get back to normal. She knows it was a dream but the feeling are real.

backdoorman · Answer

My girlfriend did that. She was grumpy with me for a few days before she realized how silly she was being.

Ninania · Answer

No, but I've definitely had emotions surface through dreams that I had to reflect on.

Grovermint · Answer

People are so dumb. It's a dream. It has no meaning at all.

BoobMan · Answer

Uh. . . no. Because I'm not delusional!

Sparkie460 · Answer

No that's never happened to me

boobliker · Answer

Yep!

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope.

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