Can you be sexually attracted to someone and think they are nice but not want to date them? (Page 2)

[EmyyWolf]

That animal literally just told you that he wants to use you sexually.

Why even bother continuing a friendship with him 😂 ? EWW!!

[Anonymous]

Yes actually. I have a good friend rn and we agreed that if I can’t get the guy I like we will just date each other. He is nice but in my opinion really clingy. Like to a point that it’s alarming. But he is nice and sweet.

[ohmyguy]

Absolutely... there's a song that rings true... she ain't pretty she just looks. that way...
A fashonista.. got nothing on Tom boyish regular girl. next door.. I rather a girl that walks awkwardly in high heels to a girl that run wearing stilletos

[genericname85]

absolutely. like if we can't relate on an emotional level, i can still think she's nice and think she's physically hot but still not interested.

[Staximus]

That's a piss poor excuse, the guy is just a douche bag looking for sex. I have only met like 2 women in my life who have the same music tastes as me.

[Starrrboy]

Yeah because we have quite different vibes and personalities or because of one single difference but it's huge... the guy you're seeing tho... It seems like he just wants free sex lol

[Blueeyes81]

Absolutely. I've experienced it and have felt that way as well. It's pretty normal to find someone attractive, like their personality but they are headed down a different life path.

[Anonymous]

I can find someone sexually attractive without wanting to have sex with them. But no I couldn't have sex with someone without dating them. Because what is the point? It's just physical gratification at that point.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I can still like a girl enough to fuck her and still not want a relationship with anyone.

[Titanic1912]

I wouldn’t make a big deal about music tastes. If it’s that big a deal, that’s a ridiculous reason.

[whistlingwh0res]

That's typical white guy. I finally gave up looking for a date

[Cuminginside]

Is that serious out here?

[Asker]

He’s not white though :/

[Titanic1912]

What’s wrong with that? There are a lot of interracial relationships going on today.

[Asker]

@Titanic1912 I'm not white either lol I just meant that since the poster assumed he was white and made it sound like it was something only white guys did and not guys in general

[whistlingwh0res]

He is banana or coconut yeah they learned it from white guys

[Asker]

I wasn’t really thinking about it that much (we’re both not white but from different ethnicities) but come to think of it he is nicer to white women sometimes and he even flirted with them in front of me while we were together. I mean he probably either wasn’t into me that much or is a player and I shouldn’t be sad about it but I guess I just liked him for some reason

[magiusX26]

@whistlingwhores i see some content of your character there. your racism is showing.

[KrakenAttackin]

He's just not that into you, but he will keep you as a fuck buddy.

[MaxUsefull]

yes, sometimes a woman sexually attracts me but i would never date her

[spartan55]

How is that confusing?

[Asker]

I guess I'm confused because if I was sexually attracted to someone and thought they were a nice person I probably would want to date them even if they were different than me. But maybe I'm not usually sexually attracted to anybody so it's different for guys-they might be sexually attracted to a lot of women and not want to date them-but to me the idea is confusing since I don't usually like people in that way

[spartan55]

Welcome to how girls and guys think differently. One of the biggest mistakes girls make is assuming guys will think, act like, have similar feelings as girls. Then they get mad when they act like a guy! 🙄

[spartan55]

His excuse about musical preferences is such bullshit I don't know how he said it with a straight face.

[exitseven]

Yes, if they were liberals.

[convo_king89]

It’s called a fantasy

[Asker]

But why would you fantasize about someone who is clearly interested in you? I thought a fantasy was being with someone who was impossible to be with :/

[Wise4myage]

Sure, they could just be friends.

[Cuminginside]

With benefits

[Anonymous]

Yeah. Happens all the time.

[sheikalana]

Absolutely.

[Grond21]

He will regret that