Why there is Strange Rise in conflicts in my relationship?

[Anonymous]

So me and my girlfriend had been dating for long. And In the first times or first months we didn't had much conflicts but as the time passes by our conflicts are becoming frequent and she does want to fix them but the conflicts are just frequent. And I dont know what changed that is causing this much conflicts.

[RoseySarah]

Big hint there is more under those conflicts causing them... some anger over something or something she won't want to talk about.

Same happens in marriage they just slowly build when it is a little dumb thing. Something you do or don't do makes her so mad!

[Asker]

So is it better to talk to her about it like what causing her troubles? Like its pretty frustrating for me and I want to work on the challenges and she also want to work on the challenges but I dont know how does conflicts come so frequent. It was one conflict we had and we took 2 days of break from the relationship and after that conflict. We started to have continious conflicts.

[RoseySarah]

What causes it
She might have gotten to like fighting and getting back together

[Asker]

Yeah But I dont understand why she always wanna fight and get back together. Its not always my fault but she never looks at her fault and changes.

[RoseySarah]

Alotbof people are like that wanting drama and never seeing they are at fault!
Or just cause it to cause drama for their own twisted fun.

If it won't work out just stay friends and laugh when she causes these fights

Takes 2 to fight

[Asker]

Also I have an bad trait that I have and that is I can't easily take an "no" so one day she just rejected me about something and I became kinda angry and dissapointed so yeah I just kept myself silent and I mistakenly spoke words which I spilled in anger. And then I even say sorry to her but she started being very moody and became dry and just... killed me from inside because I want to talk to her but she can't move on from the past.

[RoseySarah]

She can't move on and you can't take no... sounds very unhealthy hope things work out for you

[Asker]

I do can take an no sometimes. I still adjust for the relationship and she does some changes but this frequent conflicts suddenly but we werent so argument or destructive before.

[Anonymous]

If she's not willing to meet you half way, then its time to move on.