So this guy married gave almost every woman including man his number but when it came to me he got mine but than didn’t want to give me his?

[Anonymous]

At first he did than he changed his mine why take mine but then and not give me me his

[JHAYES317]

Doesn’t matter he’s married and giving out his number to other women, that’s a red flag unless it’s strictly a business/friendship thing

[Asker]

He gave out to other woman at work except me though and we friends

[JHAYES317]

Ok but if he’s married why do you want his number? Married men don’t usually hang out platonically without other women…

[Asker]

Well he got mine without a problem

[JHAYES317]

Why would you give your number to a married man?

[Asker]

He borrowed money from me and told me he will send money back

[JHAYES317]

So it’s just a platonic thing? Well in that case, why do you care as long as he pays you the money?

[Asker]

That’s the thing he didn’t want To send bc of his number when he first agreed to it so he got my number but refused to let me have his

[Asker]

At first he was willing to send over through my number but changed his mind

[JHAYES317]

Maybe his wife has trust issues and would flip if she saw him texting another woman even platonically?

[Asker]

Like I’ve mentioned before he has other coworker woman number without a problem and he be texting them

[JHAYES317]

Right…huh. I don't know that’s shady then…does he owe them money too or just you?

[Asker]

He asked me to buy him chips and drink the other day and said he can send money through phone number I said no he said alright I’ll give you cash but he kept forgetting so I didn’t let him get away with this so I’m like here get my number and send it only takes few seconds that’s when he was like eghh I don't know why didn’t you want to give me you’re number before now you do bka bla yet he got my number and put this great Diana as my contact name it’s not like I would message him other than work related if so

[JHAYES317]

Ok so clearly he’s trying to avoid paying you. Go to his boss and complain