Dang, that really sucks. Breakups are never easy.
A few things to keep in mind:
- You guys were broken up, so technically you didn't do anything wrong by kissing someone else. It's not like you cheated.
- He's probably still hurt from the breakup, so finding that out brought back those feelings even if you were broken up at the time. Give him space to process.
- Continuing to apologize excessively probably won't help and may push him further away. You said your piece, now let it be.
- As hard as it is, you need to start moving on too. Dwelling on how much he hates you isn't healthy. Focus on yourself and your friends for support.
- In time, if he's meant to come back around he will. But for now you just have to accept where you're at. Doesn't mean you lost him forever.
Stay strong luv. Breakups suck but you'll get through it. Hit the gym, play video games - do what you need to keep your mind off it for now. It'll get better, I promise!
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Why do you feel bad? You had broken up with him and found someone else that you liked... and kissed. Nothing wrong with that. He is the one acting childish. You can try to get him to change, or let him go... again. Your choice, not his.
You were not his... You were single there's nothing wrong with you kissing someone while you're single in my point of view you weren't even supposed to apologize... Maybe he also kissed someone too but how would you know it's none of your business
He is being childish.
Do not bother with him unless you’re into the idea of dating moody little boys.
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you were not together.
He might have an issue that you moved on over him and he didn't even get as far as you did, or did he?
it's his issue, so he has to get over it, not you, so it sounds like you will be back on the open market again very soon.Walk away. He obviously no longer sees you or holds you in the same regard as a dating option. Give him space and he might come around eventually and contact you.
You didn't really do anything wrong.. you weren't together at the time.. but you can understand where he's coming from.. you broke up and soon after you were ready to meet someone else.. he's not really the main character 🤷♂️..
Yeah? So what? If you weren't seeing him at the time, you can kiss anyone you want.
He sounds a bit immature! Even possessive! Maybe you should stick with the guy you were kissing, instead.why bib you apologized you 2 were split up, say no more, I bet he did the ssane or more that's why he like this
Well you guys broke up, he needs to chill.. It's not like you cheated on him..
You can't make people love you. So don't try too hard
What's wrong with kissing people when you're single?
you should be.
U were not in the relation when u did it
Its okai- u
Its not like u have other options here
Tell ‘em to get over it
It shows he is an ex for a reason.
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