Do you believe Men have a harder time living without a mate then Women?

[Katebfun]

I believe this to an extent. Men I've noticed are quick to replace a girl after a breakup. Even older men where their spouse either died or the union ended, are again quick to get a new women..

Women seem to stay single for several years because we either don't want to settle for less or need to heal from a toxic union. Maybe more women are content with out a partner. I know for me, I'm more confident and happy when single. Every love union i had was not healthy and most cheated. So what's the point.

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4 mo

Sounds like it's a Tie? 🤣 maybe some of us men or women cannot live alone with no one

[Anonymous]

hm my friend who is a girl must be a guy then lol she always has an immediate back up if she breaks up with her boyfriends. sometimes even when they're still together! just her or the guy hasn't decided to break up yet. but she knows it's coming. so she begins finding someone else and talking to them

so in her situation, i definitely know she has a hard time being single. i've known her since i was like 14. she has only been single for maybe a week total since i've known her! she cannot be alone. it's actually kind of sad

so i guess it depends on the person and their coping mechanism and how dependent they are

[Katebfun]

She must be super pretty and skinny. 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

she's actually overweight lol

[Opinion Owner]

i guess she's okay looking, but she is far from skinny. and her personality isn't the greatest either. not to diagnose, but i'm pretty sure she has borderline personality disorder

[hahahmm]

Typically women want to marry a guy who raises her financial status. If 80-90% of the reason she got married was for that and the guy dying left her with 3-10 million in life insurance and his life savings, there's no rush for her to marry again. And I KNOW a lot of these widows are banging guys in secret. They're single but not sexless. Very few guys look at women as a meal ticket, regardless of how often a lot of you women try to tell us we're lying about that. We don't give a f how much money you make. We never got with you for that. If you are the center of a man's universe he can probably get over it in 3 months. We're wired to be tough and to be able to get over stuff. Not all guys are tough tho. Some guys lose their minds if their wife dies.

[hahahmm]

And I suspect men are more sentimental. Just because I get a new wife wouldn't mean that I ever forget the one who died. And if I made her any promises about to do if she died I'd keep them 100%. I've always been the one pushing women to keep to responsibilities to relatives/in laws. Not the other way around.

[hahahmm]

Reading some other comment where a guy says he's usually single for a year between relationships: When I was young and really into a woman then breaking up could be devastating. But it got easier each time till eventually, it's not a big deal. As a man you have to be able to handle stuff. I got to the point where I realized no woman was worth me acting like (some) women and moping around, eating ice cream. Ha ha ha ha.

[DextroShade]

Most men who have ever existed died without mating, so we are far more equipped to handle being alone than women are. You should be thankful for that because in the US 1 in 3 men are sexless and if these guys couldn't handle it you would have a 50 million-strong army of rape. To put this in context China has the largest army at 2 million.

Women however are unequiped to live alone and will typically spiral into despair and self-destruction as they age and even the simps stop giving them attention. If a woman found herself alone in the caveman days it meant certain death, girl boss feminism can't undo millions of years of evolution.

[IslaTheWitch]

I think it depends on the person, not the gender. Some people need more time to sort out their feelings, and some are, in general, not in a hurry and prefer to wait for this special person than be a serial dater. Some are more and some less shy or closed off... And some need a new thrill immediately...

[Apple1996]

Yeah men seem to be more needy and always need a partner

[Thestupidusername]

Survival men are obvioulsy gonna have it easier living alone than women do. But emotionally no. I think like you said women would rather stay single and not see anyone which would make them "alone" than men who tend to want to have their fun.. but there are men of quality too and there are women who are hoes too.. far too many.

[Anonymous]

'Women seem to stay single for several year..' translation = friends with benefits or situation-ships for years...

Women have a harder time because they are designed to be more emotional and sociable. There are more male lone wolfs, loners or those who enjoy solitude. Hence the phrase bachelor.

[hahahmm]

My first introduction to that was when I was a teenager & I found out my 70s year old neighbor who had been a widow and single my whole life was banging her hired help for years. He was a friend of the family & talked too much.

[worldscolide]

It really depends. In my own experience i usually spent a year + between relationships. Its also been my experience that when i break up with someone, she usually has someone else she's fucking with in days. Which basically proved to me that i was right in breaking up.

[KrakenAttackin]

😂😂😂😂😂😂. You are joking, right?

Men are built to be beasts of burden, to endure all kinds of hardships, to do all the rough, dangerous, to go to war, to do the ignoble jobs in society.

Men do 100 times better than women when alone. Straight up fact.

[KrakenAttackin]

Also Kate, "single women" are riding the carousel, they are not "alone".

[Katebfun]

Kraken: I was just asking and from the looks of the people's answers it's a mixed review 😅🤣

Men seem to need more of an emotional support from a women. Women usually get this support from family or other women. I'm not saying 100% Men have a harder time being single. Most men I meet are quick to move on to a new woman. Not all women are riding the Hoe carousel, maybe some. Most have values and won't give their body/soul to a man ehos not willing to commit.

[KrakenAttackin]

@katebfun. GAG has a bunch of effeminate zoomer males who might agree with your statement. The fact is women loathe to offer "emotional support" to men and find emotionally needy men REPULSIVE.

The ONLY time women do better than men when single is when women are riding the cock carousel and technically "single", (which means a new man every week).

I say again, MEN, are designed to shoulder all of the hardships in society. Women have a whole culture that is designed to support your emotional needs. Men who have "emotional needs" are seen as weak and effeminate.

One quick tour through Tik Thot and you will clearly see how being single makes women slowly crazy. Men get used to being single and often don't know how to come back from that.

You are absolutely lying to yourself if you believe women do better alone than men.

[Katebfun]

KrakenAttackin: Maybe western society needs to normalize a man's emotional needs? Doesn't matter what sex we all bear a cross of burden. Some women would be supportive of a man going through a hard time or healing. Vulnerability is strength not weakness!

Look at the ages of some men who responded it's a variety of Boomers, Zoomers, Gen X and Millenials.

For the record my grandfather died when my grandmother was in hee early 60s. She never dated again, she had friends and traveled often. Her kids and grandkids were her life too. Maybe men have better escape methods to burden the pain of loneliness. It's said women have a stronger social network then so e men.

Again you can't say all women have a guy a week. Lies. Actually nowadays I hear beautiful young women complain men are afraid to pursue anymore. Women are being pushed to make the 1sr move and chase.

[Katebfun]

Kraken- maybe you should un-install TICTOK 🤣😂 your basing your facts on a stupid app that I knew would weaken my mind by watching it. Full of Narcs, why give anyone that view

[AmeerX]

I have been with no women for a long time. I had engagement and she annulled it so I don't want to marry someone.

I suppose the difference you see is that some men don't want to tell others about the loneliness they feel so they basically don't even get to be counted in the data.

[rigmarole]

You can't even go to the bathroom alone, let alone anything else...

[Katebfun]

What? Women go the the bathroom alone every day

[NathanDavis]

I can only speak for myself... and I can't say this about myself

[noohair]

Many older men can't function when their partner leaves. That is what I have seen. It was different with me, my divorce was liberation day.

[Katebfun]

I agree. Good for you!

[Anonymous]

Yeah, this is more common with men because they’re hormonal animals who live to feed their penises - not because of anything emotional. Although I’ve met some “damaged” women that could practically be men, lol. Definitely disproportionate though.

[Anonymous]

That has not been the case in my experience. The people who manage to quickly replace their partners are generally trying to rebound which never works out.

[Katebfun]

People who go to person to person I believe do that so they don't have to change.

[sawno]

I assume its going to be highly individualistic regardless of gender.

[abc3643]

No, absolutely not.
It is definitely the other way around.

[Bricealan]

I think you are correct. I don't know many men friends that can stand living alone.

[Sharkstealth]

It doesn't really matter to me especially as I age.

[Blackbird4789]

These comments make me want to stay single or just switch fully to women...

[Anonymous]

Most turn into alcoholics, drug addicts or video gamers.

[Anonymous]

Yeah it seems like it, I noticed most women can do without but us guys need companionship

[Billlewis]

Oh, absolutely.

[LiamJHayden]

It is an individual thing.