We can have a hard time finding our partner too.
Before meeting my now fiance, I was struggling too. I had to weed out several men that either found waiting till marriage unbearable, believe in living together first, one that said marriage was just a piece of paper, one that didn't want kids, one that was into clubs every weekend, etc. I found him by random chance at a supermarket (after a female friend stood me up) when I wasn't even looking.
Many men seem to think you have things so easy in the dating and relationshp world. Really do you? I had a hard time.