My stepdaughter (18 f) accused me (45 m) of SA. She lied and now my wife just wants me to forgive her. What do I do? (Page 2)

[TheSpaceGnome]

Get a recording of her admitting the lie in court and show people, then file a defamation lawsuit and keep copies of the records, that will clear your name. Then you need to file for divorce and make sure your wife gets none of your money or property.

[Zestyassmf1997]

I wouldn’t forgive her. But I’m not the forgiving type. What she did is so far beyond what’s normal or acceptable that I couldn’t forgive that. You know, it’s one thing if a kid gets salty at a step parent, but this is a whole other ballgame. For your wife to just expect you to be okay with it is fucking insane. Single moms, man.

[Anonymous]

Press charges against her. Demand she makes public apology. Demand cops press charges for filing false report. If she does all that then you can forgive her.

Obviously she won't so you won't have to forgive her.

[RavenDarkheart]

Situations like this are why real victims of assault are often questioned. I’m sorry that your partner’s daughter ruined everything for you and her mom just over petty anger and jealousy.

[andreasderjuengere]

Forgive her officially. And suggest that she now finds a room for herself.

And never again give her a chance to lie or to ask something from you.

As for Mom: You could tell her that you forgive her as well.

And the neighbourhood... well - this world is full of other people. Forgive them, too :D

[justaskit24]

I would forgive her but be very cautious and careful around her. Limit any alone contact.

[Asker]

Yeah not until she very publicly apologized. My reputation is ruined, my business and lively hood is ruined..

[PastDue]

Divorce her now. Leave her and her shitbag daughter in your rear view. Do it as soon as you can. You cannot trust either one of them now.

[SolitarySolace]

Divorce your wife, and leave. No man should have to deal with that bullshit

[legalboxers]

My friend was in this situation, her daughter did this to the step father. Was a bad scene alltogether

[Anonymous]

That is a tough call.. I would definitely take as much time as you need. There is no time limit on this.. if she this what else is she capable of? She knew exactly what she was doing when she did it.. she is 18 and not 8 .. becareful

[Jmmmfi4]

LEAVE THEM BOTH IMMEDIATELY... DON'T PUT YOURSELF IN A BAD SITUATION

[LazerBean]

That's an immediate divorce.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Dump that trash. Both of 'em. F that noise.

[Drewtate]

Forgive but do not forget

[Akam93]

Get a divorce tell your wife to go fuck herself.

[VanillaBomb]

Don't forgive her.

[electromagnetic]

Run and FAST.

[Fuentes]

Divorce

[Anonymous]

Drama, better leave