I feel so much pressure just staying at my bf’s place. He invited me to stay for a couple of weeks and I came. But i feel so uncomfortable like I have to do something for him always, or that I always have to say yes to sex. I misunderstand him or over react to situations as the stress builds up.
(Like once I left my laptop on the dinner table, and he told me “we need rules, you can’t leave your laptop on the dinner table, and I felt very offended, like he can’t even accept seeing my computer on the table or my face wash in the bathroom)
It has been the same feeling with my previous boyfriend and we ended up breaking up because I couldn’t take the pressure anymore.
Any ideas on what to do? So confused if I am the problem
