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Does KNOWING the fact that people don’t change, MAKE you pickier about people you get close with? (Page 2)
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Your first sentence logically negates your own argument.
I don’t see what you mean but I liked it because it seemed like you were going somewhere with it.
The topic itself is debatable so even if you’re wrong- it’s still up for debate lol.
Waiting for anyone else to reply so you can explain better. Not gonna remove the like. Good sense of balance 👍
No, its just reassuring, if i like that person now, i will like it later in life as well.
People change and grow all the time. I’ve always been picky about who I hang out with though.
People grow, but people don’t change
People do change and can. Those that never change , are those special few we all should avoid.
@Kingofkings1992 people definitely can change, lol.
@Dinklex3 I disagree friend
“Nothing external can change a person.”
Patently false.
I think the premise of the question is flawed because I think people can and often do change. It isn't always easy, but it is not all that uncommon. They mature, they grow, they learn.
Not really, if I already know them well enough to see problematic traits then I would just stop getting close to them or if bad enough I'd cut them off
Yes, but that's because I don't think the majority of people will change, even with that mindset.
You are right in that no one can change another person. However, your interactions with someone can be the catalyst that would make them want to change.
People do change but they only change when they want to change.. and yes you should never trust everybody you should always be picky to who you allow close to you because you never know the intentions of someone.. I say always be picky
I actually disagree with your underlying premise. I think some people CAN change sometimes. (Just not everyone all the time.)
It's not that people can't change it's just they're not going to change when it's convenient for you. A person should be able to grow/change on their own when it actually clicks.
I just don’t get close with anyone. Every time I have or tried it ended badly.
Yes, ten thousand percent. To do otherwise is foolish
People have to learn to accept how people are and if they cannot, then move on. People do not change no matter how hard you try and change them.
Yes, it adds on. I like to learn as much as I can, try many things. People that have a routine set for life scare me.
Look at chef papi trying to sound smart. Lol
@Kingofkings1992 what’s wrong, you don’t know what it is.
It’s cute that you think you can understand something that I can’t
@Kingofkings1992 it’s not hard to understand. Just takes time to learn it. In a day where information is so readily available, you have no excuse for not knowing.
@ChefPapiChulo just so you know, it’s rather daft to use bullets to make one single point. Lol 😆
@Kingofkings1992 I’m not sure how that happened, or why it matters.
@ChefPapiChulo just looking out for you, buddy. I’m a good person. You have a tendency to make yourself look dumb
@Kingofkings1992 right.
if your smart it does... 99 percent of people will leave ya hang when its down to u or them. fact of life ya learn over time. unfortunate really. my experience anyway
That’s smart knowing that and yes it makes me careful about who I will be with
The truth is people do change in 4) different seasons. So this question is void.
Never spend your time seeking a perfect candidate. U be the perfect candidate and you'll lure in those who share the same perspective and that sends those who aren't good for u running Way.
I don't change for anyone
If they want to stay then welcome otherwise door is open...