Would you long distance if he or she said they would never relocate?

[Anonymous]

This is not a question if you would do long distance or not so please don't answer I would never do long distance. If you were to do long distance and the guy or girl said they would not relocate would you do it? They also told you this up front not later down the road so it's established that if it works out after whatever amount of time that you decide you would have to relocate for them, would you date them?

[laly520]

if its serious n working out then its possible to relocate for em

[Asker]

In this case it would be serious, not just a fling or anything.

[laly520]

then too possible to relocate

[Anonymous]

No, Id see no point in pursuing that person.

[Asker]

More curious than anything. Can you explain why?

[Opinion Owner]

Unless you were willing to relocate.

[Asker]

Ok are you not willing to relocate, because honestly if one person isn't and was clear about it and the other was willing why is that a problem. They are not asking you to move right then and there.

[Opinion Owner]

I might be.

[Asker]

At the end of the day, it's your choice. But if You might be willing to move for someone I don't get why it's a problem for them to say they're not if it's right out front. They're not telling you to move right then and there you got to know if you think they are worth it first. Someone has to move eventually if it works out. So if you're willing, why can't you give that person a shot to see.