I've gone about 3 days. Normally, I'm not the type to do this kind of treatment to people, but a girl I was with was the type and would go a day or two when she was mad at me, and so I did a "taste of your own medicine" thing with her once. She didn't like it at all. She mostly stopped doing it after that. But in most cases, fights mean nothing to me. Not that they're unimportant, only that it's not the end of the world. So, I could really go right back to talking like normal.
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20 minutes...
Even though I really don’t like to not talk to them.. but it’s okay to have healthy space to be calm, rational, and still talk to your partner with respect even when you’re mad/hurt. So I guess the most is 10 min - 1 hour as needed. I think if it goes more than one hour just really hurt… I really dislike feeling like I upset/hurt/sadden them and vice versa.
0, it will get worse if we don't try to fix thing up quickly
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zero... silent treatment doesn't help solve the problem.
but it happens I'm too emotional to talk at this very moment and ask for some time for myself before we return to the topic. But still, I act normally, talk to him, and so on...I can't ever stay mad at my partner unless it's something extremely serious. It just feels like something isn't right in my life when I don't communicate with them. I don't hold grudges with my partner, but with friends and acquaintances, it's pretty easy to.
If i've apologised, communicated and said my part AND the ball is in HER court... then Forever
I would never ignore or avoid contact without trying to resolve any issues and come to a conclusion together.
About 15 minutes usually. That’s with a partner and not just someone I know. With a partner I really can’t handle not talking, if it’s serious enough that we cannot talk about it, then I will end things.
Simple, "Don't let the sun go down on your anger". In other words, never go to bed when you are angry. Get it sorted out beforehand and make up. Then you will sleep well instead of fitfully.
i mean could be forever if we broke up over a fight xD
I have no idea. I am so used to dealing with people who hold grudges that even though the issues seemed resolved I am still avoiding out of fear that the topic would be brought up again.
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we dont play such games
if there is an issue we discuss it
I can set my watch. 20 minutes later, my wife will say somethings like, "What I meant was - - - - - - - - - - "
Assuming I was still in love, every second would hurt until I fixed it. If we where falling out of love, until we had makeup sex.
I try to make up before bedtime, makeup sex is awesome 💃💯
I take some time to clear my hear and calm down then talk it out and seal it with some make-up sex
Not very long maybe an hour or so!
Probably a couple of hours if that
Never had a fight to know that.
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