I dont know what more to do?

[Anonymous]

So I have been in a long distance relationship for 8 months with my husband of 4 years due to family issues in his country and he has gone back home but in the past 4 months he never wants to write to me, ring me and ignires my messages. He doesn't even text me barely asking how I am or nothing. He never wants to have a phone call or nothing. I get so frustrated that I ring and ring and ring and then he blocks me and unblocks me a day later. I dont know what to do and he is making me feel like crap.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh sis, I'm so sorry this is happening to you. That's incredibly hurtful and disrespectful behavior from your husband. You don't deserve to be strung along and ignored like that.

Do you really wanna be with someone who treats you so poorly even after being married for 4 years? Long distance is tough enough as it is without the lack of communication and effort on his part. Makes me question if his heart is even still in this relationship.

I say it's time to have a serious come-to-Jesus talk. Tell him exactly how his actions are making you feel - unappreciated, unimportant, not cared about. Ask him plainly what's really going on and if he still wants to be married. His answers (or lack thereof) will tell you what you need to know.

If he keeps brushing you off, playing games and blocking you, then unfortunately that's not the behavior of a loyal partner. You may need to start thinking about moving on since he doesn't seem invested anymore. I know it'll be so hard, but staying in limbo will just hurt you more in the long run, babe. You deserve to be someone's #1, not an option. Know your worth, mama! Let me know if you need anything - you've got this.

[boggboss]

How is this marriage going to work when he doesn't want to even hear from u sorry

[laly520]

seems like he will end it soon