I can't give affection to two or more guys at the same time, it feels weird to say to this guy, "Yes babe, I like you a lot" then I tell the other guy," of course you are special to me", it makes me feel like a hypocrite
You might be doing a little more than just flirting. And that might be why you feel bad or feel like a hypocrite. I think there's a line between flirting and leading someone on. Instead of little comments about how cute he is, or how strong, or smart, or how he gets you the nicest gifts or something, you're basically telling two different people that you like them, which "isn't necessarily" wrong, but if you took those comments to the extreme, it would be like telling two different guys you're in love with them at the same time, which then starts to get into some shady territory. Just my two cents.
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Foreal, it feels dirty
Yea it’s fun. But sometimes the one that I want is dry af. 🤣 and I tell them that and I just move on.
Yes, especially when I’m trying to make someone jealous 💕💯
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I did sometimes when I was a bachelor but I mostly addressed the group like, "Wow, what lovely ladies you all are." Then if they let me hang out I might start talking to one or two in that group.
But my flirting style wasn't like, "I like you a lot", it's more like, "You're the prettiest girl I've seen in over an hour."
Nah I can’t. If there’s two people, I can only actually feel anything for the one person. Even if it’s just flirting. Talking to two people feels and sounds wrong in my opinion
Well you are ultimately going to like one more then the other. Then the one you like less you will have to let down.
But as long as you not actually dating two guys at the same time you can do what you want.
Can I? Yes. And I have. I once asked out two girls who were both standing right next to each other…but only if I’m not really into either of them. If I really like a girl, she’ll get all my attention.
it's common especially during watching games in our bar that we all flirt with each other. In normal circumstances, I prefer one-on-one :D
I don't think I've ever flirted before so no clue.
Used To
But They Eventually
Caught On & All Realized
I Was Just Tripping N BullShitting
So They Either Ghosted
Or Blocked
If Not Both
Before Then AfterOutside a relationship and not being serious and being clear about it: yes.
if im being very serious or actually in a relationship: no.
so short answer: it depends
No that's too much work. Having to choose is not something I want to do. Treating him as a 'candidate' rather than a partner is what it sounds like.
Sure, any time I'm dating and not in a relationship.
yes and no I flirty with a lot of people at the same time but not in a sense of looking to date or anything like that but more so in a playful way.
I have probably done it 100s of times by now.
Nup aim not batman or spiderman
Two at same time 😂😂 i can'tNot only can I but I do. I've been flirting for years
When I am in a committed relationship she’s the only girl I wanna flirt with. Loyalty is valuable
@12karen yes I can flirt with 2 or more guys, it’s not that hard
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nope... never been a flirt
considering how miserable I am at flirting, there's now way I could
Isn't that kind of like cheating?
nope but i can be friends with others
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