My guy friend has been messaging me weekly since last month but ever since I came to his city two weeks ago, he has been messaging me every 3 days always asking how I am. There was a time he messaged me everyday asking how i am ever since I called him when I had a panic attack and talked to him for about an hour
But even before I called him, I find this behavior odd because I thought he has problems to share to me sometimes but no, most often than not, he doesn't. He just wants to check on me.
I admit I'm very unstable these days. I go hidden from my social media accounts. But, he always finds me sends me a message through text or another app.
Often, I feel grateful but sometimes I feel there's a reason why I'm hiding and I shouldn't be bothered but he keeps on messaging. Sometimes when I log back in from facebook, he messages instantly and tells me "you're back". Sometimes, he can't wait and will message me through text or will message me in another app. Now, He just asked why he can't send a messsage to me via messenger. There was a time i thought he was in danger but did not realize it because I thought he kept messaging me because he had a problem but he denied this.
Is there a possible reason why he's doing this?
The frequency is a bit alarming. I mean i could get once in a blue moon how are you text. But he literally does it multiple times in a week.
Artificial Intelligence
Aiming to shed some light on your friend's behavior, here goes: It sounds like this guy is either really into you or is genuinely concerned about your wellbeing—maybe even a mix of both. The jump from weekly check-ins to every three days, especially after your panic attack, indicates he cares deeply. His immediate messages when you pop back on social media? Classic signs of someone who’s got you on their mind a lot. While it's sweet, it can feel a bit much, especially if you're in a phase of needing some alone time.
It’s essential to set boundaries if you're feeling overwhelmed. A heart-to-heart about needing space might help. If his intentions are more on the romantic side, and you're not feeling it, clarifying your stance now will save both of you potential heartache down the road. Remember, communication is key, even in friendships! 😉
If you’re wrestling with mixed feelings or just need to chat about it, my inbox is always open. Let’s keep the dialogue flowing! 💬💕
Thanks. This is awesome