Do you share financial information with someone you've been dating less than a year?

[Anonymous]

For example, can they access your bank account (they have your passwords), or use your debit card (they know your pin), and you're fine with that because you trust them?

[SueShe]

No, my financial information is only my business and nobody else's.

Regardless of whether you have been with a person with 1 day, 1 year or 20 years, in today's world, it does not matter because no information remains confidential for a long period of time.

It is enough if that person is intoxicated and blunders out some confidential information to his buddies or friends and the information is no longer confidential.

I would never share any confidential information with anyone simply because it is none of their business.

Relationships come and go and what happens to those confidential informations once the relationship is over? Exactly, you lose total control of them.

[Anonymous]

No I'm not ok to share it with boyfriend or even with my husband but I want to keep my finances secret so to have control over it myself. I don't want others to control or misuse it but I know I can do it better ofcourse for we both but sometimes it's good to not know about it for some people who can not control over themselves.

[steveusna]

Hell no! I would agree to create a joint account that we both contribute toward for shared expenses like dates, trips, etc. Trust is incremental.

[strateguy632]

a few of my gals trusted me ," go withdraw for me". i said " don't tell me your code if we ever separate i don't want you to suspect me."

[jennifer_bloom]

I think you could have 3 bank accounts, one that is yours alone, one that is his alone, and one that you share. I know somebody that is a home maker and her husband transfers funds into her account but he does not know what she spends money on.

[DizzyDesii]

We don’t mind discussing our jobs and stuff. My current nor exes were fine expressing their pay. They know I do my own thing and they also know I’ve spent more on them than their little cheapo asses would ever spend on me lol.

[Simslover92]

No not to that extent. Like he knows how much I make a year and vice versa and that's as far as it goes. Once we are engaged or married he will know what's in my bank account but certainly not before then.

[midnightmoon05]

After marriage.

however… do have conversations to understand each others spending/debt habits/situations/goals

[Dinklex3]

No, lol.

I’d let them use my card though. I even used to give my card to coworkers to get something to eat.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I didn't share that with my fiancé I'm not going to share it with a girlfriend. That's nobody's business ever.

[bobby_bush_eater]

No. They can have an idea of things but unless I am marrying them they won't have that kind of access

[PrettyCrumblBb]

No. I would never give out my pin number to a boyfriend. That's crazy. My money is mine. His is his. Once we're married, then our bank accounts would be joined. We would have the same bank account, hence the same pin.

[MrOracle]

No, and none have ever even asked. It's never been necessary - I make sure the bills get paid.

[JacobJordan]

Sure. I have given people I have known a few weeks access to a debit card for smaller purchases if I am busy and they need something.

[Account]

I might be many things, but gullible is not among those.

[Wiredone]

I don't share bank information until marriage.

[JayBones]

My wife has no idea I'm a bitcoin millionaire. If she did she'd probably make me retire and waste my life with her. She can be rich when I die. Fuck her.

[LiamJHayden]

No. I would only share that if I were to get married.

[SeekerOfTruth007]

i don't trust my financial information to anyone.

[Anonymous]

i have an account my boyfriend can use without being able to access any of my other accounts. he never has used it

[exitseven]

I was pretty much broke when I was dating so there was not much to share.

[bolverk]

No absolutely not, they have no need to have access to any of my financial details - ever.

[Anonymous]

If I'm serious with a girl I might give her a companion credit card, but I'm not combining bank accounts or anything. Honestly, I don't see the purpose in ever doing that.

[worldscolide]

Not until my wife and i got married. It was two years.

[Booklover_90]

Nah. This is something I’d share with a husband, not a boyfriend. That’s just me, though. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Anonymous]

I don't share financial info. With anyone I'm not legally binded to (married). Why? It's none of thier GD business!

[Nikki1989]

I don't share that with anyone.

[laly520]

not before marriage

[SolitarySolace]

Who would be stupid enough to do that?

[Unit1]

That's worse than suicide.

[Vegasrunner]

Are you insane?

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not, I don't give anyone those details

[SOUTHERNGUYDL]

HELL NO, NOT THEIR BUISNESS

[underling]

No. Never. Nope. Nada

[LavLavLuv]

No. Never again