His mental health dramatically declines, he’s constantly at risk of being homeless because he can’t maintain a job due to anxiety and overall not feeling ok.
It’s okay to be grieved by what you lost. It’s okay to grieve the things that were, the things that are, and the things that will never be. Everyone has, at some point in life, fallen apart.
What would be pathetic, is if you let it affect you for the rest of your life. There will be other people, and other opportunities for relationships. If 20 years from now you’re still mourning over this, then yes it would be pathetic. The sun may be setting, but it will rise tomorrow. Your life is not over.
It's not pathetic, but it's a sign that this guy has a host of troubles that he's been ignoring.
There's nothing unnatural about being crushed after a serious relationship falls apart. But losing a job and becoming homeless is a bit much. People get anxiety and depression after a serious relationship ends. That's normal. And there are professionals to help you through such a period, and medication.
But the job and homelessness means the end of this relationship and all these failures have something in common.
It's time to find out how this person got in this situation in the first place, and to start on recovering his life and balance. Good luck.
Not really. In many relationships, especially long term ones, guys will shed all of their own friends and, if they analyze the situation, realize that all of "our" friends are really "her" friends. So when the relationship ends, especially if it was unexpected, he suddenly finds himself not only partnerless, but friendless.
I'm not going to use the word 'pathetic,' but it most certainly is unhealthy to dwell on events for too long* that are beyond your control!
*I suppose only you can be the one to decide what is or isn't the definition of too long in this instance though!
Falling apart after a relationship ends isn't pathetic; it's profoundly human. Love can be intoxicating, so when it's gone, the withdrawal is real! Losing your way shows how deep those feelings went. But here's the twist - hitting rock bottom can sometimes be the solid ground you need to rebuild yourself anew. Mental health is no joke, and it sounds like this person needs a supportive community and professional help to guide them back to their path. Love lost should not mean life lost. Encourage them to seek help, remind them of their worth, and maybe share a laugh or two to lighten the load. Remember, every storm eventually runs out of rain. There's always a way back from the brink. 😊✨
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I can understnad the pain of lost. Just don't stay there forever. We have to walk the path we paved. It can go up or down...
We all have obsticals we face in life. I would not call you or one pathetic... I would suggest to not stay there too long.
Took me 3-4 years. to move on after my ex. hubby decieded to break up our family of 4. And closed all the bank accounts... Life was hellish for those years... being a single mom caring for 2 with no child support of alimony.
One day, I decided that i have to make changes.. and I did...
So... hugs to you and do your best to move past this chapter.
It's not good and such person should ask friends and specialists for help. The bad mental condition after break up isn't nothing strange or unseen but leaving it without addressing and taking care IS PATHETIC
In the short term no. In the long term yes.
Every guy NEEDS to go through this at least once. It hurts, but you're so much stronger afterwards because of it. After this happens you're carved out of stone and no woman can EVER break you again.
If you're going through this. Trust you'll get through it man.👍💪
I can understand how this could happen but I do think it is a little pathetic Guys are supposed to be able to shake off adversity and fight through the pain. Life sucks and the world is a hard place. That is why God made guys tough.
There could be other factors involved to someone losing their home or potentially being homeless you dumbass stop & think it's not always about some tramp who's been with many guys that person could of had physical health issues which prevents him from working or the death of a roommate or sudden sickness not everything is about some used up tramp you dumbass
Not pathetic I mean break ups are really hard. But you should find the strength within you to get over it. If it's that hard seek for help just don't let the ship sink.
u I don't think so, but I'd say he definitely needs to get help.
I want to share a Turkish author's (Sabahattin Ali) words:
Everything passes, everything is forgotten. There is no point in losing yourself in a disaster
Jesus isn't going to fly down on his magic carpet and pay the bills
Yes, it is not the end of the world.
It’s not the relationship. It’s a deeper personality disorder.
Depends on age, circumstances, how long they've been together. Personally I've gotten better at coping with hardship as I've gotten older
m not pathetic but concerning
Get some fucking help, dude.
Yeah
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