Is it normal to be annoyed at your girlfriend who doesn't have any friends nor hobbies? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

I'm the complete opposite. I would enjoy my peace and quiet time and be glad you were going out with the boys every now and then.

[Booklover_90]

The fact that she doesn’t have a life outside of you is a red flag. Why doesn’t she have friends and hobbies?

[madewithingredients]

a red flag is kind of an exaggeration. if he actually starts spending some time without her and she tries to guilt-trip him for it or something, then yes, that's a red flag, but if he's 30 I assume she's around his age or slightly younger, and she's not necessarily who she will be for the rest of her life, I. e., she's still maturing/becoming who she's gonna be/figuring herself out.

[jahaims]

Major red flag. Probably a narcissist. They basically don't have personalities and mirror their partners

[Anonymous]

''she never tells me that I can enjoy my free time by myself''

yeah she's toxic , and the fact that u can't do anything individually because it makes her insecure ,

[Opinion Owner]

and yes it's normal to feel annoyed , bc your reltionship is like a prison , u can't do anything u want bc she'll get upset , do u want to be with someone who's holding u back from achieving your goals , even soemthing as simple as have a boys night? or do u want to be miserable like her?

[Nikki1989]

I couldn't be with anyone like that.

[Akam93]

Yes it can be annoying. Tell her to go out to social groups and make friends.

[sungie28]

Yes it is normal, coz she ought to have another life aside being with you, otherwise you would find her boring

[DreamLife7]

Why would you be with someone like that? Yeah that's very annoying and I wouldn't date someone like that

[OtterMan68]

yes, she needs something to occupy her time outside of you

[007kingifrit]

no, it means you probably don't have much in common if you think she "doesn't have hobbies" there probably isn't a future there

[Pohjolan]

Figure out a hobby you guys want to do together?

There's a ton of options out there.

[Lara_Croft]

Communicate to her all of what you've just said

[jshm2]

Yes, as you are the likely reason why.

[rienna888]

Yeah let her focus on work or something

[rienna888]

@princessashika why?

[rienna888]

@princessashika okay I sent you a message

[Mikeysoda]

Yes.