Do you prefer height or Mucsle?

[Tyler2]

Muscle meaning not body builder but shredded
And height meaning in this case not many muscles at all and dad bod or skinny fat

Height 6' and up

Muscular 5' 8" and down

[jennifer_bloom]

I know short guys that try to bulk up, but I prefer a short slim guy over a bulky one. I will view a short guy as an alpha if he is compassionate or intelligent or charming or confident and loyal and honest. He does not need to be 6 feet tall.

[Tyler2]

What I'd he is all the latter and tall

[wiltingrosepetal]

Height. It's not a competition

[Tyler2]

Really? Is there such thing as too tall? Also is it because he may come off as intimidating to others if he needs to protect you?

[wiltingrosepetal]

No it's because I'm not attracted to a man who's shorter than me. Probably too tall would be 6'8 and above

[Tyler2]

How tall are you? I'm 6'4"

[wiltingrosepetal]

180cm

[Tyler2]

What if the guy was your height on a first date? Would that make a deal or no deal on height alone?

[wiltingrosepetal]

My boyfriend is my exact height lol. As long as he's not shorter, we're fine

[Tyler2]

Just wait if y'all get married and he shrinks and you don't lol.

[JHAYES317]

@wiltingrosepetal what if he shrinks from a back or knee surgery? Would you break up with him lol?

[wiltingrosepetal]

That's an odd hypothetical, isn't it? 😭 No I would not break up with my partner because he went through surgery, I hope that's a common opinion

[JHAYES317]

@wiltingrosepetal well you said it would be an issue if he was shorter than you no?

[wiltingrosepetal]

Would you break up with your wife for looking older and less attractive over time?

[JHAYES317]

@wiltingrosepetal if she stopped putting any effort into her appearance, yes. But if she just aged and was making the best of her situation (I wouldn’t expect her to surgery or anything, just makeup, exercise, skin care etc), then no

[wiltingrosepetal]

Why? Don't you want your partner to look young and attractive?

[JHAYES317]

@wiltingrosepetal plastic surgery often looks bad unless it’s done very conservatively. Plus, it’s expensive and solely cosmetic.

[wiltingrosepetal]

But you could just break up with her and see someone younger. Why are you putting this much thought into someone who's ugly?

[JHAYES317]

@wiltingrosepetal because I care ultimately about personality. I’m not a shallow prick like most people these days who would break up with their boyfriend if his penis shrunk or he lost his hair

[wiltingrosepetal]

Thank you, that's the response I was looking for. First impressions matter because we all have standards. You want a pretty lady, I want a tall man. It's the initial attraction that draws us in but it's the personality that makes us stay, even if they don't fit our types anymore.

Now that I have a man who pays for my dates and buys me flowers and can share a laugh with me over anything, why on earth would I give that up? Height would be the least of my concerns if he went through surgery, all I'd want is to make sure he's okay 👍

[JHAYES317]

@wiltingrosepetal first impressions matter to some degree yes…but if someone has a really good personality, I’d still consider getting into a relationship with them even if I didn’t find them very physically attractive.

[Nikki1989]

Neither.

[Tyler2]

So short and skinny or short and fat?

[NYlatefun]

I’d say most women prefer height.

[Tyler2]

Why would that be?