Why do "people cheat on their partners after marriage"? Is it Intentional or unintentional? Ever happened with u?

[myloveforuisinfinte]

[Summeroflove]

Cheating is a intentional act it’s not like you can accidentally jump into bed with someone. Now emotional cheating can have more of a gray area. Something can be innocent enough but someone takes it the wrong way.

It comes down to integrity. People love making excuses for why they do things to make themselves look better and maybe to feel better about themselves as well. Instead of admitting they’re wrong.

Someone with integrity and morals wouldn’t cheat on someone. If they’re unhappy they will either try to fix things or file for divorce. But they won’t cheat.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

That's true😊✨

[Anonymous]

My focus is more on the olfactory pleasures that life offers, rather than romantic entanglements. I seek the woman whose underarm aroma would captivate my senses, allowing me to bury my nose deep within, as if diving into a vat of fermenting onions and garlic. And oh, how I would revel in dousing her feet with vinegar, a tangy delight, before adorning them with a medley of vegetable scraps - a true feast for the senses! My heart, or rather my nose, yearns for those unique scents of sexual areas.

[DishLady]

It’s always either intentional or unintentional….


Some people just don’t have “staying power” and cheat for a variety of reasons. Other are “the keepers” and are capable of doing the forever thing.

[strawberrybaby3]

Because they’re insecure, or the relationship lacks intimacy, and they’ve grown apart.

[strawberrybaby3]

** and cheating is always intentional lol. You have a choice.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Ikkk lmao but according to some people it's unintentional lol and I'm surprised coz of that

[Finchie40]

Mainly because the sex life dies down between them , One partner isn’t satisfied with the other so they go and cheat to fulfill What they aren’t receiving at home Why sex is important in relationships and marriages , If sex dies down , then usually the relationship dies as well.

[DaveJord]

It totally intentional. Nothing unintentional about it.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Having been on the receiving end of being cheated on, I would never do that to anyone. If I stopped wanting to be with the one I'm with, I would end it first!

[myloveforuisinfinte]

I don't know why people do marriage , if they can't be loyal bruh. Cheating is worst. No one deserve this

[TommyMountainFigure]

Sorry I never explained properly. I haven't been cheated on during marriage.. I was by my first real g/f.. That's the experience I wouldn't wish on anyone. My marriage is rock solid!

[myloveforuisinfinte]

That's great!😂😃😃😊.
Yeah I can understand u.
Well it happened with u in your relationship but some toxic people have audacity to cheat after marriage. That's what I'm saying lol

[TommyMountainFigure]

I think I understand where you're going with the question you asked now.. You believe (as I do) Marriage should be definite, and if someone is going to cheat? Why bother showing the world you are a couple (Marriage) if it is nothing more than a sham!

[Lionman95]

I would say it happens because they feel taken for granted and not fulfilled by the relationship. So they go somewhere else to get the appreciation, I would say it´s intentional.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

It's better to divorce then cheat on someone.
I don't support cheating fr.
Whosoever do cheating is a badd and toxic person fr (man women both).
But the point is-
If women do the same , men starts cursing all women and play their victim cards. Lmao just like some women

[myloveforuisinfinte]

*divorce instead of cheating on someone

[Lionman95]

A divorce is often complex and not easy to go through. I think people should rather be sent to a therapist to work out their problems with each other. Since people cheat on each other to avoid fixing a problem and get what they feel entitled to or see as their right. They use cheating as a shortcut. (I don´t support cheating either.)

[myloveforuisinfinte]

:) can't agree more

[Squatting_Slav]

In my opinion, cheaters inherently pathological liars or have a mental block when it comes to understanding morals. So I think it's inevitable to them, to cheat and not end things before instead just shows a lack of balls in my opinion haha

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Mental block😂😂😂
Lmao I was drinking water and reading this at the same time😭

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Almost choked lol

[Squatting_Slav]

😂😂Careful!

[JHAYES317]

Never been married but generally one partner ends up getting dissatisfied with the lifestyle they are currently living (including sex, finances, etc) and so looks outside the marriage to try to get it…

[myloveforuisinfinte]

That's worse yk , it's better if they divorce them. Coz if a girl do this , then these kind of man starts crying and calling her whore, sluts, gold digger what not. And when a guy do same thing, then these kind of guys have a audacity to say that "I don't like her personality, that's why I cheated on her, personality matters blah blah".
Bruh Such a hypocrisy yk.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

It's simple, if u don't get what u want in marriage then simply divorce them and marry someone else, instead of cheating on them

[JHAYES317]

@myloveforuisinfinte divorce is expensive…I think if more couples were willing to get prenups and genetic testing of babies was mandated…there’d be less cheating going on

[myloveforuisinfinte]

That's why choose your partner wisely lol
Yeah prenups are impo. if both the partners are independent and have career, but it's useless if only one partner (husband ) is independent and have career and other partner (wife) is totally dependent upon her husband. lmao
I saw many comments here - like they want a trad wife not a career oriented wife and still want prenup. Not gonna work coz she was dependent upon u , whole time. Another kind of hypocrisy lol

[myloveforuisinfinte]

That's why choose someone on the basis of personality and behaviour. Not on looks.

[JHAYES317]

@myloveforuisinfinte so you don’t care about looks? You’d marry a 4’11” bald guy with a micropenis?

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Yk that's complex , but 4'11 guy are not here. In my country , shortest guy is 5'0, 5'1or 5'2. If he is actually worth it , then all the things u mentioned doesn't matter tbh (short height, baldness and micropenis 🤣🤣etc). I don't care much if a guy is similar to my height or short than mine. I saw many couples here who are 5'1 and 5'2 ( like both guy and girl is 5'1 or 5'0) so it's kinda common here , not like west🤣🤣, where girls want tall guys🤣here girls don't have that kind of interest.
Now a question for u - will u marry a girl who is really ugly , and kinda bald too (coz of some issues ) and is very asexual type like she don't want any kind of physical touch? How can u be in a relationship with someone who don't want sex in their life?

[JHAYES317]

@myloveforuisinfinte trust me, there are 4’11” guys there…just probably not very common. I could marry a bald girl who is very ugly if she had an amazing personality but not asexual where she didn’t want any physical touch…at the very least she’d have to be ok with cuddling or hugging otherwise I couldn’t do it

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Oo then that person should date Asian girls. Asian girls don't set too much standards. Their standards are simple. Except some.
I don't know about west , but maybe there are exceptions too. Short height couples are common here , so not a big deal.
I agree with your points, coz my points are same so yeah I can understand u, yk u want a girl who have good , humble personality, and loyal. That's what people want too. But no one wants to give effort fr. That's why short term relationships are common.💀people are really messed up

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Dating apps are worst lol what I observed. I never used dating apps but ik about this coz of my friends, and internet. Popular topic yk 🤣

[JHAYES317]

@myloveforuisinfinte what country are you in, if you don’t mind me asking?

[Nikki1989]

Because something has gone wrong with their primary relationship.

[NathanDavis]

I have not married before

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Lmao ikk😂😂😂that's why this question isn't for singles😭😂

[myloveforuisinfinte]

So when will u marry?👀✨

[NathanDavis]

I'm free next Fall...

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Oo so u gonna marry soon. Congrats

[NathanDavis]

lmao... no way, no

I am single, so... that is something that would be decided between the two, whenever that happens

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Lmao hope u find that someone soon. 👍Have a great day😊

[LaurenM1997]

It’s not just marriage they cheat in they could be boyfriend girlfriend fiancé and they’d still cheat

[AgentG111]

They are doing it intentionally!

When you catch someone in the words and actions of such it's intentional!

Definitely happened to me.

[Markymark92]

Maybe relationship got dull/ intimacy issues

[nawtee_me]

It has to be intentional since it is a choice. They choose to cheat….

[worldscolide]

Cheating is ALWAYS intentional, Selfish, Evil and Monstrous.

[strateguy632]

always decided so intentionally

[exitseven]

Ne er

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Lol what's that

[exitseven]

Never.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

That's nice