Why is it wrong to fall in love with a married man?

Question

Why do people think negatively of a woman who has an affair with a married man? What's wrong with that? Does the man have to be single just because he's with his wife? Perhaps he's grown tired of his wife after being married for so many years and can't get a divorce because he has a family.

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

@melanie31 Not 'wrong' on a woman's part, but 'wrong' by definition for the married man, "forsaking all others"

Iron_Man · Accepted Answer

Because the man is taken? It’s written in the Bible thou shall not commit adultery

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As your friendly relationship expert here to spread love, I can see why this topic is tricky! Falling for a married man is like playing with emotional fire, and those pesky societal norms are quick to throw shade. It's all about respect, compassion, and understanding commitments. Love is powerful, but ethical boundaries keep it healthy. Sneaking around might feel exciting, but it often leaves a trail of heartbreak and trust issues! 🔥💔 Keep those vibes positive and aim for the drama-free zone! 🌟❤️

Genie23 · Answer

Are you in love with a married man? Because I sW your another question "If a married man falls in love with another girl, should he leaves his wife?" Or something like that. So, I'll just answer both of your question here.

"Why is it wrong?"

It's wrong because you're breaking someone's home and trust. A man who gave a commitment to a woman when he got married, is disrespecting and throwing away the promise he made to her. That just shows how selfish, inconsiderate and untrustworthy he is. Also, if he can do that to his wife, what makes you think he wouldn't do that to you? He can do that to anyone after the relationship is over the honeymoon phase.

Now why is it wrong for a girl to fall in love with a married man?

I mean, breaking someone's home to settle down with a man who left his wife and kids for you? I'd feel guilty and ashamed if I get involved with a married man because it's morally wrong and breaking someone's home and hurting another woman for your happiness is just evil, in my opinion. There are so many great guys there, why would the girl get involved with someone who clearly has someone he legally married to and has kids with?

You said perhaps he's grown tired of his wife and can't get a divorce because he has a family. If that's the case , what makes you think he wouldn't get tired with you? If he's tired, he needs to work on his marriage. Resolve issues, not be in the arms of another woman. I don't think he'd be okay with his woman having an affair with someone.

It's just too complicated, too messy and selfish thing to do. That's why it's wrong to get involved with a married man in the first place.

Finchie40 · Answer

There is nothing wrong with falling in love with a married person , it’s only wrong for the married person to betray their spouse for the person that is falling in love with them., which unfortunately happens more than we like to think it does. A lot of people get into relationships and marriages for the wrong reasons that end up miserable and unhappy with their spouse , so the right thing for them to do is to end their marriage with their spouse before investing their time into someone else , which again most married people don’t do , they line up their next partner before leaving their current partner and one of the main reasons for that is because they are selfish and only really care about themselves , they never truly cared about their spouse , So the new partner better understand , that they might eventually do the same thing to them like they did to their ex spouse. I knew a married guy that cheated on his wife with another girl , once he left his wife for that other girl , he eventually did the same thing to her that he did to his first wife , He is now on wife number 5 which to me is pathetic , but what’s even more pathetic are the wives that are falling for his shit

ohsheeT · Answer

He can get away divorce anytime that he wants

But she's all about the manipulation.
No matter what he's going to tell you a different story, so he can manipulate you into getting what he wants. Thinking thinking that he still looks like a good old boy that loves his wife. I guarantee if his wife caught him, she would be getting a divorce.

So why is it wrong? Okay? So let's pretend you're married and you think everything's going good. But then you find out he's been seeing some lady. How's that make you feel

MrOracle · Answer

It's wrong for the same reason that being a get-away driver for a crew of bank robbers is wrong. Sure, you may not have robbed the bank yourself, but you are enabling the crime by being the get-away driver. And this is why get-away drivers are considered to be a part of a bank-robbing crew and are charged with the same crimes despite the fact that they never set foot in the bank.

Sleeping with a married man demonstrates that you have no morals - you don't respect the institute of marriage, and you are selfish and just do whatever you want without any thought to who gets hurt - and that's why such women were traditionally scorned and ostracized by society.

bddddd · Answer

The moral problem is that the wife is being deceived and betrayed. You can wave your hands and say that's the husband's moral failing, not yours, and that if he weren't having an affair with you then he would just be having an affair with someone else and whatever else you choose to tell yourself. But badness is happening and you are only one arms length away from you. There may also be children affected and they certainly do not ever deserve to be betrayed in that way.

I'm not a big fan of monogamy. There is a moral way of doing this. It involves honesty, communication and giving up envy. It involves him being a man, rather than a 13 year old boy that is going to take whatever he thinks he can sneak away with. It's called polyamory. I commend it to you.

NoDecision · Answer

Because it is adultery. If you want to play around, do it with a single guy as there are more than plenty of them to go around. If he is truly tired of his wife, he will divorce her and damn the family ties, as his mental health is more important. Some people have to have what others have. I don't get it. Hmmm, why, are you having an affair with a married man? 🤔

mstbooblover · Answer

Falling in love is a phenomenon, a feeling one has no control over, and thus, when falling in love with a married man, there is no guilt, nothing wrong in itself, but still often problematic consequences to be taken into account for many obvious reasons, as well social, intimate, and family related.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Because you're helping to ruin a covenant between 2 persons who promised to be there for each other for life.. All for a little limerence and thrill.. I guess it's one thing for them both to ruin their marriage by opening it up.. But its another for him to betray his wife..

Staximus · Answer

Seriously?  Let's say you are a woman (which is doubtful, this is not your first fake profile with that picture) How would you like to come home from work early one day, and your husband is banging the neighbor's wife on your dining room table? If I was married and came home to my wife banging some dude, I would probably shoot him.

Gwendoline · Answer

Obviously the husband is worse but a mistress is still plenty bad because she is choosing to interfere in someone else's relationship and be involved in its destruction.

Anonymous · Answer

Falling for someone who is married I would not say is wrong. However, doing anything about it is as they are already in a realtionship.

If the married person is not happy about their marriage then they should leave the existing realtionship before starting a new one.

kellytheman · Answer

Because he is committed or made a commitment to a woman and you be consider a home wrecker especially if they have kids. I understand women might like married man but you should wait or if there is open marriage situation going on.

itsannalee · Answer

Typical of fatherless’s question

avery58 · Answer

Because 99% of the time they are hypocrites who wouldn't want the same to be dont

glennos89 · Answer

You don't do that if you're a good hearted person. It's called having respect for people

stratford · Answer

Not if he has big balls and a nice strong dick. Just joking. Love is love, you can't fight it.

Ironic_Method · Answer

Going after someone who is taken is *usually* a dick move.

Sal_Monella · Answer

Its wrong to harm his marriage. A crush only affects you.

DrPepper12 · Answer

It's not a recipe for success, fulfillment or happiness I'll say that

Amur8711 · Answer

Because the women that's fallen for him shouldn't try to end his marriage and he should leave his wife before starting a relationship with the other women

StevenMcGarrett · Answer

Totally understandable. You have need and he has needs.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Get married ans see if you think its okay for you husband to cheat on you with another woman

Nerdvana · Answer

Would you want some woman to fall in love with your husband?

Anonymous · Answer

You are 17 years old and have No idea what you are saying right now!

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Only Muslim don't accept, the other husband of his wife , but in Non Christian multiple husband or wives is considered a PRIDE

RedInnocent69 · Answer

It happens. You know they high value if they’re already taken

Anonymous · Answer

If I have to explain this to you, about morals and ethics, you should not be dating, period.

Iryna_209 · Answer

Actually no one should fall in love with the married one as its gave nothing and totally bullshit.

WonderingManII · Answer

I don't understand. Love is also a choice.

Awantika03 · Answer

Don't break 💔 his family

Jerre · Answer

If he has a good working cock, go for it

Anonymous · Answer

It's not fair to his wife.

Pookywookybear · Answer

If he cheats with you he will cheat on you.

azgınteke · Answer

O kadının yerine kendisini koyması gerekir

MasterKS · Answer

Its personal preference, you can't judge.

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