Okay first of all... You are in this relationship, not your mother. As much as she cares, she doesn't know the dynamics of the relationship. And you are old enough to make your own decisions.
And second of all, you should NOT be doing everything with your boyfriend. He needs his time, and you need yours. He does not need to take you everywhere with him. You two are adults. If you did every single thing together, you would be in what's called a "co-dependent relationship".
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Does your boyfriend often exclude you from plans with his friends? If he does then yea you should be pissed at him and he doesn't really respect your feelings. If he does include you then sometimes guys just wanna have guy time and you shouldn't fret about it. It all depends on what his normal behavior is. I honestly would feel a little hurt that my boyfriend doesn't want me to come a long for 4th of July but then again it's all based on how he normally treats you.
How long have the two of you been seeing each other? If it's the beginning of the relationship that could be why..
If he had plans to go out of state with his friends, it's not surprising he wouldn't change his plans so his guy's trip would be fun for his girlfriend, even assuming he could arrange the extra travel space.
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