Feeling numb towards boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I have been with my boyfriend just over two years. I love him very much. However, the last few weeks I have developed a numb feeling towards him. I don't get that excited when I go and visit him and for some reason there are times where I don't feel like being sexually active with him even if we have not seen each other for a week. Also, I don't find his jokes that funny anymore and there are certain things he does that annoy me.

I'm not interested in anyone else and deep down I really love my boyfriend but I don't know why I'm feeling like this...maybe it is just a phase?

Has anyone else experienced this towards their girlfriend or bf?

[Pelios]

You just get into the routine try something new and exciting go on a vacation together or just a weekend getaway try something new like a sport or something.

[The_Supid_Genius]

It's not a phase. It's a normal part of being in a relationship for 2 years. Sadly, this situation will not improve :( sorry.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

I disagree. It doesn't usually happen in my relationships, and when it started to happen with my current girlfriend (of five years) we only slowed down to a crawl for about a month, then we addressed it, and it gradually increased to our usual amount of crazy crazy sex over time. It is a phase, it can potentially be worked on and improved. Whether I am a freak occurrence, and exception to the rule or not, I feel it's important to note that it's not impossible.

[The_Supid_Genius]

Or his answer. Yep...that's how it'll go.