myTakes: Relationships

Gentlemen, if there's a girl with a perfect body, an ideal personality that you think will match yours, and just looking at her sends you brimming with happiness, but she doesn't respect you, stop pursuing her. Girls like...

The key to a healthy relationship is communication, respect and quality over quantity! Let me make it clear that I am not trained or qualified by the state to say any of this. This is from experience and personal...

I recently had a revelation sort of light bulb moment this morning. 💡 While out Friday night something ‘clicked’ in me that has never before. I realized that most people come to social places steadfast as who they are...

Hello, I figured I'd take a moment to write up a quick myTake on some of my ideas for how to effectively deal with a breakup. Obviously these may differ from person to person, but when I am upset, I have found them to...

Hopefully, you will fare better than that patient above, a victim of poor communications. Interpersonal communication is the process by which people exchange information, feelings, and meaning through face-to-face...

I felt it best to put this in myTake form instead of question because the story has details that folks need to know in order to understand what may be going on. So buckle up. This Sunday we were spending a late...

I came into the apartment after a long day. She ran up to me and kissed and embraced me. She let go, “how was you day?” I shrugged. How was yours? “Well it was my day off today, so I did some cleaning, resting and watched...

I have a girlfriend. Let's call her Ada. Ada is a very sweet, intelligent and beautiful girl, if a bit shy and introverted. She's one year my senior and we met at the University three years ago. In the faculty we were...

Athol Kay - renowned couples advice writer, blogger, and consultant, has released another book: So what’s it about? Well after a decade of writing about relationships in one form or another, the #1 problem I come...