How real is Heaven?

Anonymous
I believe in a higher power but i’m not so sure who that power is.. I grew up Christian but have a lot of questions on how real it is. The bible talks a lot about ways we would be judge in order to get to heaven and to be honest it seems impossible to be that perfect just to get to heaven.. For example it said “The power of life and death is in the power of the tongue” and “we will be judged by every idle we speak” so are we not allowed to speak negative at all? Like I can’t say I feel depressed or this person pissed me off today etc

Then it talks about how there will be no pain, grief, crying etc in Heaven but doesn’t our mind, will and emotions including the sad ones make us who we are? Am I not allowed to feel a little sad or disappointed if I get to heaven and not see family members or friends?

I want to believe Jesus and God is real but it’s so many questionable things that are hard to follow like truly walking in love with everyone.. forgiving everyone, accepting everyone, loving my neighbors as ourselves even those who do us harm.. never worry because worrying is a sin.. it’s just all hard to perfect in order to get to heaven yet God accepts us for who we are but won’t allow us in heaven if we don’t live His way
How real is Heaven?
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