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Search Results: do you need to work at a relationship
Why do you think women of today are such (for the lack of a better term) gold diggers?
Excuse the term gold digger. There is no catch all term for this. I could have said "money focused I guess. But anyways I think it's because a couple generations ago women were relegated to the role of homemaker. Now that...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What are the keys to being a good partner in a relationship?
We always talk about what we want in a relationship, but we never actually do the work to be a good partner to that person that we want. I think I need a lot of work, especially how to treat the person that I want....
Justneedtokno
Guru Age: 31 Would you date someone who you discovered was an underwear/ lingerie model?
I just started talking to a guy on Facebook Dating. His dating profile was clean, and his character was very kind, something rare on a gay dating profile (usually gay men try to turn you on with sex, which doesn’t work...
BAMDesigns06
Xper 1 Age: 35 Guys, I need an opinion. Am I my own worst enemy or is my relationship not working out anymore?
Hey everyone, my relationship seems like it’s going down the drain very quickly and i hate it. So here’s the problem. For years, i’ve been nagging him about instagram, about why he liked girls bikini pictures and why he...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I call things of?
I will try to keep this as detailed as I can, but at the same time not, cause the person im dating knows im on this site and im worried that they might find this post. before I start, i want to tell a bit of a background;...
Anonymous
(25-29) Men: I need help figuring out a supposedly "gay" man I know?
I've known this man for a year through a friend and some acquaintances of mine and he's always sweet to me when we see each other. I ended up having an event the other night where he works and he kept coming up to me,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Question for Leftists #6: Feminism is a national Security Risk. Do you agree?
Why am I asking about feminism? Because people - predominantly Leftists - practice and/or support feminism. Anyway, let me explain: 1) I've heard that the US military has issues hiring, due to low enrollment numbers and...
Ponderer_8000
Xper 1 Age: 34 Do you agree or disagree that guys shouldn't put photos with their kids on dating apps?
Is it just me? I think it's really icky. Not sure if guys would think same if woman has her kids in pics. I think would be same. I don't mean it horribly. I know a guys kids is gonna be important to him but I'm not...
Crimsyjo
Guru Age: 47 What kind of relationship is this (casual, friends with benefits, etc.) and what are the expectations?
I matched with a guy on a dating app and we met up after barely exchanging any messages. I figured he was looking for a hookup, which was totally unlike me but I figured screw it, I need to do something out of my comfort...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is this relationship worth fighting for?
I’m in my first serious relationship, and I guess I could call this my first love. I’ve had one relationship before and a few talking stages, but nothing more. I’ve been with my current boyfriend for 4 months, and we met...
Brooklynbabyyy
Xper 2 Age: 22 Is it normal in relationships to say hurtful things?
I just want to know if this is a sign the relationship won’t work out or if it’s something people can move past from and have a healthy relationship. My boyfriend and I got into an argument and he said some very hurtful...
Anonymous
(18-24) Will he regret it eventually and want to try to work things out?
Details in screenshots, sorry for the length. TL:DR Nearly perfect LDR relationship headed toward a future together, abruptly ended during a much needed conversation about why he wasn’t ready for me to move to his...
Anonymous
(30-35) Have you ever had a loss turn into a benefit?
I had a dream that if I trusted God, He would turn my problems into solutions and my setbacks into privileges. An example is that I used to feel bad I did not have the confidence to talk to guys as a teenager and got too...
Is she stalking me?
I liked her and was low key following her and persuaded to love me but got rejected. She gave me faces and blatantly ignored me and feelings. Then 4 years later her boyfriend dumped her and she called me to apologise for...
Anonymous
(18-24) My wife wants a break. Is there any hope for us?
My wife and I, together for 17 years with two kids, are facing serious marital issues. A few months ago, she expressed doubts about our future, sparked by a tough year marked by grief and personal struggles. While she...
woody
Xper 5 Age: 44 He offered me a job at his company?
I had been speaking to this man over social media. He was extremely interested in my face more than the usual man. He would have sexual conversations with me throughout the time we have been speaking. I had answered some...
simsx
Xper 4 Age: 22 The beginning is always the hard part?
I became friends with benefits with this guy at my job (I know stupid of me) because I had no intentions of dating after becoming hurt from previous person. For 4 months just doing me was peaceful and happy. Then my...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I deal with a clingy boyfriend when I'm feeling trapped and miss my freedom?
We just became official for a week and I am having second thoughts with our relationship. When I travelled and we were apart, i felt the need to message him everyday good morning to assure him. It started with good...
Ofoceansbeaches1
Xper 5 Age: 35 Will this take time?
I think I'm a lost cause. I'm 27, and I'm quiet. I've had people tell me I need to tell them no often, especially at work. I started a new job, and I'm kind of picking up on it, I don't want to make the same...
Anonymous
(25-29) My expectations is ruining my relationship?
My expectations is making me question my relationship with my boyfriend. We been together for 4 months and we work together. We don't talk to each other at work. Only sometimes in the morning and when we leave. I just...
Alottosay
Xper 5 Age: 28 