Search Results: dating a younger guy

I am teaching ski at a ski resort and we are quite a big group of young people working here seasonally, some I know some I don’t. Met this very cute guy and there was immediately something between us, we exchanged numbers and started hanging out a lot just the two of us for like a week. There were cuddles and intimate moments but never sex as I wanted to get to know him better first. Luckily a friend who knows him saw us together and called me aside after about a week, to tell me that he is in a relationship, with a girl she knows. I feel really bad about it but there was no way I could have known before. Luckily I didn’t sleep with him. Do you consider this as cheating, do I have to fear that people will tell her he cheated on her with me?

I don't mean in like a pedo way, I mean within 1-5 years of age difference. My guy friends say they would feel weird dating a girl who is older than them. What do you think?

I’m starting to realize that maybe men just don’t like me, I’m going to be 30 soon & never been in a proper relationship. I don’t want kids at least but I really don’t think I’m unattractive, I have self esteem issues so my opinion changes. But I’ve been on the dating apps for years on and off, my interest in them just became lesser over the years. Getting matches are never the issue it’s just it working out, always ghosting, fizzling out, etc. I’m told I’m cute/attractive, I never get asked out by guys in person, I can confidently say I’ve never been approached by a guy I found physically attractive. Back when I was 23 I dated someone briefly & I felt so offended by only being able to attract him it felt like settling I couldn’t be with him, I’ve been alone this whole time that shows you how men feel about me. When I was younger and around people my age more often I was told these guys found me attractive but they never did anything about it. The fact that beautiful people are always taken it makes me realize I’m maybe just not good enough. Isn’t it strange being as old as I am & still not meeting someone that I actually like? I’m not asking for a lot: good looks, taller than me (doesn’t have to be 6+ ft), educated, good sense of humor, not a cheater etc. I feel like I’ve genuinely become less interested in dating with my experience, I have a lower than average sex drive too I think