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Who's more picky about the appearance of the opposite gender? (Page 2)
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Men with out a doubt. Women have more feelings than men so they look for feelings and personality more so than anything...however this is also their downfall as it clouds their vision and allows for them to make more mistakes because of past experiences that have gone wrong due to bad judgment.
People without souls tend to go for looks. Since men generally have no souls, they go for looks.
I think guys are. Initially we may have high standards but we can over look it and grow to love it if we really like the guy. Guys are more like if you're not up to his standards he might sleep with you but you won't be relationship material for him.
Girls standards are way too high, boys have higher standards in fantasy land, but when it comes dowm to the moment, they don't do so good.
I think as far as dating, guys are more prone to want a hottie. As far as sex, as long as the other person has the right parts, it's all kind of the same.
personally guys aren't as picky as a girl. a guy could have sex with anything. whether they are cute or ugly lol.
Thats not always true I know guys who won't have sex with just any girl the girl has to be hot!
Yeah. but it all depends on the guy. my brothers had sex with the most unattractive girls, it was sad. and then my uncle would have sex with anyone. so it all depends on the guy.
Scnbabe89~ I know plenty of guys who will have sec with just any girl. Then I also know guys who are really picky. I am currently involved with a hot looking 20 year old as my FWB who just dumped his 120 lb girlfriend because she was a MAJOR psycho bitch. He's still coming to me for the hook up and I'm WAY over 120 lbs. I am VERY picky of the men I date. My FWB is actully too heavy for my standards but the sex is just way beyond AWESOME so I over look him being chunky. His face is HOT, His belly is NOT!
Well then why do you see girls that have boyfriends who are in the Military or Athletes? Duh! because they are good-looking, in shape, girls are just as shallow and picky about looks, appearences, as guys are.
Military and athletes...hmmm, don't particularly care for either haha.
I still think girls are just as shallow.
That's because you're the guy who refuses to see things from other's point of view and always thinks girls have it easier and that life isn't fair to you. well, that's because you've got a learning disability which predispositions you to being ego-centric.
Yup, nothing I can do about it.
Well you could admit that it's your disability that is causing you to feel so strongly about this and realize that the average person is going to see you as self-pitying and somewhat pathetic for blaming your situation on an a gender (women as a whole) rather than being mature and taking responsibility for your issues and working constructively improve yourself.
Well I have tried fixing it but nothing has worked.
So you give up? lol, great attitude. good way to get a girlfriend haha. I've got serious problems with depression. my low-self esteem drives guys away. but I don't just quit trying to make myself better. it's my depression and it's something I need to sort out internally. you should have the same attitude towards you disability, not just "it's girls' faults that they don't like me, they're just too picky"
Well my disability makes it difficult for me in social situations, breaking the ice and starting a conversation is a struggle for me.
Well about that. if what you have is genetic, you have to realize that people (girls & guys) are naturally programmed to find mate who's healthy and who's not going to pass some sort of disorder to their offspring. it's survival of the fittest. you've got aspergers. let's pretend lions can have aspergers, would an mildly autistic lion survive in the wild? maybe...would it be attracting lots of lady lions. no, because lady lions don't want their cubs to have autism.
Now I'm not even sure if autism is genetic, but since mostly guys get it, it might be on the Y chromosome or something. but anyway, since that's what you've got. you need to try extra hard, harder than most people, to overcome what's holding you back. try to see things from others' points of view and try to convince yourself that you're disorder doesn't control you! because it only controls you if you let it!
I know a guy who had a brain tumor and had to have part of his brain removed when he was 7. that part of his brain controlled his growth and he stopped growing, but only on the left side of his body. he was horribly disfigured, his teeth stopped growing in on that side, his face was lop-sided, his arm and leg on his left side were the arm and leg of a 7 year old and were virtually useless. the right side of his body was a normal 20 year old.
And guess what, this kid went to college and got a girl friend! why? because he has a kick-ass attitude and he didn't let his deformity ruin his life. but you bet it was hard as hell to make it to where he is now.
Are you serious?
Yes, I'm serious. after graduation he went to college in Delaware and got a girlfriend. despite the fact hat his left arm and leg were in braces. personality outweighs looks. end of story!
Well that brain tumor and having all that surgery, it may have changed his looks a lot, but it probably did not change his personality or social skills, he probably had those social skills and conversation skills all along, like they were instinctive for him. For me I was not born with the social skills and conversation skills like most people are.
This kid was blessed with a good attitude, he had a speech impediment because his teeth were all screwed up. look, if you want to mope around thinking that no one has it worse than you and that it's all girls' faults, fine. but it's your disability that's making you act that way and if I knew that it was just my condition making me feel that way, then I would actively try an overcome that and try to view life like people do without asperger's.
Girls, for sure. Where do you think the phrase "she's doable" came from?
When it comes to sex, guys don't have very high standards, but when it comes to someone who they're willing to call their girlfriend, they've got dreams of gisele bundchen.
I think both genders are pretty shallow.
All people go for someone because of initial physical attraction. You stay with them based off personality.
Of course, it depends on your standards. Usually good looking men want good looking women and vice versa.
There's the "hot couple", the "nerd couple", etc...
guys are more selective about looks
girls just care abut the money
honestly, I don't really know, but I wanted to see the results
Actually girls are very much into personalities not so much money
ive always felt that girls are more based on looks rather than guys, at least in my case. I could be seriously wrong though.
it's guys. they look if we are skinny, if we have nice skin, if we have nice hair. that's why some girls are so paranoid about appearances
Oh yes, and girls just care about personality right? haha, bullsh*t!!! Girls are the ones who care about looks, ever notice how you always see girls dating hot guys? But you see a lot of guys with ugly girls, know why? because the girls have SEX with them. Guys only care about sex and girls only care about looks. And what does it matter? It's just another trait, just like personality, it's no different, it's just preference.
Ok Kanqaz.. I am becoming a fan.. lol... I like the girls who are skinny and have sex.. busted.
I think it's more guys than girls, but it can go either way. Still, the guys are more picky.
I think that it really depends on the person, I don't know if I could give a different answer then that.
actually, I think girls are much harder on women's appearance.
Girls and guys are just as picky when it comes to looks but it takes a more adult attitude to get over that and girl have adult attitudes sooner .
Girls are insane anymore. Influenced by MTV. You can be the nicest guy. The second she sees somebody with more money or better looking you get cheated on and dumped.
Girls by far. You all are hoez
Guys are way more selective... girls just want a good guy
i don't go fo the best looking ones , I asume that good looking chicks are bitches
depends on the person, not the sex...
I couldn't agree more.