Is it bad that no one at school likes me and I always sit alone at lunch? (Page 2)

Dog19 · 2017-09-25T06:14:22Z

I know that it sounds silly but after high school I literally don't see a life for myself. Except watching YouTube videos, going back to high school and being the duff in my group of friends. ( im typically the ugly fat friend that no one notices) but despite my lack of body and good looks I try to be a nice, open minded and I pass on good vibes but I'm never invited to parties, I always walk home alone, I never had a boyfriend, no one asks me out, invites me anywhere and I'm always ignored or pushed to the side unless I say something. I can tell no one is interested in me and I never get phone numbers. When I do, the kids act uninterested in me or stop talks to me without word. I feel like I will be forever alone and I have to get used to basically being a outcast. By the way I live in a ghetto area and my personality has been said to be different, special or strange. There has been two drive by shootings in my neighborhood last week. Including gang members shooting in front of my little sisters school. is there a reason on why I am a fucking outcast at school and the only people I consider friends are decades older than me?

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I am sure thats NOT TRUE. They may find you unapprachable or be afraid to invade your space. I know, cause I give off those looks a lot. Do you smile?

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It takes time finding people that genuinely enjoy your company. It will depress you, but do your best to just build yourself up. I know that sounds impossible. But criticising yourself will swallow you up. Take it from me I destroyed myself doing it

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Well you do seem quite odd. However, you're different and I like that. So that wouldn't stop me from trying to befriend you.

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- Dog19
  
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  Lol but you never called me
  
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- Dog19
  
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  I gave you my number
  
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- Pink2000
  
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  Cause I'm always talking to my boyfriend at night. How bout you call me
  
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- Dog19
  
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  Give me your number
  
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Anonymous
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I think that you should look for some sort of support group for people in your situation to improve your social skills, even building a little bit of confidence would probably help you immensely.

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You have no idea but are learning most important thing in life

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MsMusic Follow
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I was the same way. Had my first boyfriend at the end of senior year.

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harry191919 Follow
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Life is "when no one likes you, you should make them like you back by achieving something"."good people with defects" always have blessings of god.

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Insanyx12 Follow
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My friends abandoned me too I know how you feel I'm here if u wanna talk
I talk to my delusions sometimes at lunch people call me weird
I listen to music I recommend it zone out just don't care 💜

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edgyfox Follow
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Hey if you ever want to just chat to someone. I'm happily single but always open to make new friends both online and real life.

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UsernameMadness Follow
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Don't judge real life by what happens in school, it's totally different. I hope things will work out for you.

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KhabibNurgomedov Follow
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people are shitty do you go up to people and start a convo I know I do and get them all going

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Where do you sit? I'll join you.

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MohammedAZ Follow
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Same here that's why I always have a novel with me

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- MohammedAZ
  
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  My advice is "FU*K OTHER people, YOU DON'T NEED THEM"
  
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Incompatible Follow
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Fucking people, man!!!

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Texasmade1 Follow
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You just described me except im a guy.

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Anon-ymous1 Follow
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I do the same thing... it's okay gal.

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LastNightmare Follow
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no babe, you are fine

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ItsYaBoySkinnyPen-is Follow
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Grab a gun and make them like you

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Mr_weed Follow
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Aww.. Thats a sad ass story 😂😂

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it is bad if you don't want to be alone

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