I think women should be feminine. They shouldn't have abandoned it. Woman shouldn't try to be like men. of course men don't want to be compared to anything feminine. Woman could be strong in the mind anyway if she finds the right man it won't matter.
That's a big jump in logic, there are many feminine men with lifelong partners. If you honestly feel we are just driven by nature and biology then it's a good bet you aren't accepting of the fact that humanity has evolved beyond that
@GreedyGiver651 yes it is. I'm assuming your theory comes from the idea that, women won't choose to sleep with him, they are the judgers. In reality this mirrors the very feminine power, to judge who is and isn't worthy, much like mother nature.
Not everyone is straight by the way. Your assumption is off, considering it didn't add up well, could you rephrase it?
Feminism isn't a fantasy, and what does that have to do with your comment, feminity and feminism are two different things. You made a claim and I'm challenging you to support it. If you can't, then it's probably a false claims.
i think it is a lot stronger. It does not abide by the rules the masculine abides it is free to roam and empathize with another, while the mascline is tied to expectations.
No, I'm straight but I am in touch with my feminine side to a point. That being said if you lose your feminine side everybody has it I feel you will lose important part of you. Could save a lot more but I don't really want to text that much.
No, I believe society should be more accepting of femininity, I tend to enjoy some traditionally feminine things and some traditionally masculine things, but I'm straight and a male
I have two but I’ll kill with my bare hands if I have to. Yeah that’s not “feminine” but we live in a time where men have thought they can have their way with me. They thought wrong.
Historically this is a great time for women. And I mean it’s wrong to clump all men in the category of wanting to have their way with women. I’m not saying thats what you’re doing, but starting this whole is femininity weakness is just stupid. Most men don’t try taking advantage of women! When you’re going into an interaction with a man in that mind set of, “you’re going to try to take advantage of me,” then you’re going in already hating that man. Nothing good could come from it. Being weak isn’t bad because most men won’t exploit you. Stop associating with dipshits and on the same level men should stop being dipshits! No man should take advantage of a woman!
That’s another generalization! Not all men are like that. You’ve had bad experiences. I don’t know your life story but I’ll give you that. It happens. I’m sorry it happens, but it happens. Doesn’t mean it will always happen. Failure is the path to success! Words to live by. Don’t be afraid to fail or get hurt. It’s the only way to succeed and truly be happy! You can be better off now, but you’re possibly missing out on great things by being mean! Experiences that could change your life just flying by because you got hurt in the past. Leave it there and move on with life. You’re only hurting yourself.
I’m sure there are exceptions, but as we all know, exceptions don’t make the rule. I’m not saying it’s right, I’m just what that it is what it is and that’s why women are the way they are.
Absolutely not. As a gay guy, I grew up being shamed for it, and I was often asked if I wanted to be a girl, as if there was something wrong with being female or just feminine. It's not weak, it's incredibly brave.
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No, women should be more feminine
too many masculine women these days. if i wanted to date a man, id be gay
How are women too masculine? What are they doing?
I think women should be feminine. They shouldn't have abandoned it. Woman shouldn't try to be like men. of course men don't want to be compared to anything feminine. Woman could be strong in the mind anyway if she finds the right man it won't matter.
Society needs both masculinity and femininity to balance out society.
I never thought of femininity as "weak", just opposite, of masculinity.
I think people are too hung up on what is feminine and what is masculine. It's all bullshit anyway. Just be you however you choose to be
I wouldn't say weak, but soft hearted. Nonaggresive
Women are supposed to be feminine. Men masculine. When that changes things go wrong.
Like what?
30 year old virgin men
How is that related?
if you can't comprehend, dont ask questions
Got lost
Isn't that the point of asking questions?
You sounded so confident in your response, wouldn't you want to prove it?
you know that by definition 30 year old virgin men are born of femininity.
Would you explain science to a 2 year old? No. I'll be wasting my time explaining to you.
I'm 23. Are you going to keep making excuses or actually back up what you said?
No, that's not by definition
feminine is attracted to masculinity by biology. when a man acts feminine he will die alone
That's a big jump in logic, there are many feminine men with lifelong partners. If you honestly feel we are just driven by nature and biology then it's a good bet you aren't accepting of the fact that humanity has evolved beyond that
@GreedyGiver651 yes it is. I'm assuming your theory comes from the idea that, women won't choose to sleep with him, they are the judgers. In reality this mirrors the very feminine power, to judge who is and isn't worthy, much like mother nature.
do your research and stop playing to the fantasy which is called feminism
Not everyone is straight by the way. Your assumption is off, considering it didn't add up well, could you rephrase it?
Feminism isn't a fantasy, and what does that have to do with your comment, feminity and feminism are two different things. You made a claim and I'm challenging you to support it. If you can't, then it's probably a false claims.
Feminism is the fight for more power in the hands of femininity. I'm done discussing this, you will remain blinded.
It's the belief that everyone is equal, different, but equal. Again, try and distract, your main point remains unproven.
Femininity isn’t weak at all, in my opinion. I think women should embrace their femininity a lot more.
No. It might give that impression sometimes if it's like "omg I broke a nail" type of feminine. But the best thing is to be feminine and kick ass!
i think it is a lot stronger. It does not abide by the rules the masculine abides it is free to roam and empathize with another, while the mascline is tied to expectations.
uhh, define weak.
In society? You're weak in society if you're a dick.
In a fight? You don't want to be feminine, whether you're male or female you don't want to be feminine lol
No, I'm straight but I am in touch with my feminine side to a point. That being said if you lose your feminine side everybody has it I feel you will lose important part of you. Could save a lot more but I don't really want to text that much.
I love it, i think femininity is a great trait for women to have. Its what makes females unique and masculinity what makes men unique.
No, I believe society should be more accepting of femininity, I tend to enjoy some traditionally feminine things and some traditionally masculine things, but I'm straight and a male
No of course not. I find it sexy and many women are confident and strong.
God created both femininity and masculinity. God is powerful.
Femininity is a different kind of strength. It's only a weakness if you let it be a weakness.
Def not, it’s just different but we’re used to thing of strength as a synonym with masculinity
Essentually it has power over masculinity in many ways, but femininity is incapable of standing alone in the world.
Femininity is weakness and I don’t understand why women want to be like men
Because femininity is viewed as weak, that’s why.
Nothing wrong with being weak!
Um yeah there is, it makes you vulnerable for being taken advantage of.
You know what always counterbalances being weak? Having a gun! Guns are a good equalizer!
I have two but I’ll kill with my bare hands if I have to. Yeah that’s not “feminine” but we live in a time where men have thought they can have their way with me. They thought wrong.
Historically this is a great time for women. And I mean it’s wrong to clump all men in the category of wanting to have their way with women. I’m not saying thats what you’re doing, but starting this whole is femininity weakness is just stupid. Most men don’t try taking advantage of women! When you’re going into an interaction with a man in that mind set of, “you’re going to try to take advantage of me,” then you’re going in already hating that man. Nothing good could come from it. Being weak isn’t bad because most men won’t exploit you. Stop associating with dipshits and on the same level men should stop being dipshits! No man should take advantage of a woman!
Too many men in my past took advantage of my niceness and hospitality.
Leave it in the past! Don’t let it run your life and make you a miserable person!
It’s only in the past cuz I had to get mean.
That’s one way to live but I don’t expect you’re a very happy person!
I’m better than I was. No one messes me.
Keep telling that to yourself! Maybe one day it’ll be true!
There’s no need for cattiness. I’m just being honest. Men say they want the nice girl. Sure they might like her, but they certainly don’t respect her.
That’s another generalization! Not all men are like that. You’ve had bad experiences. I don’t know your life story but I’ll give you that. It happens. I’m sorry it happens, but it happens. Doesn’t mean it will always happen. Failure is the path to success! Words to live by. Don’t be afraid to fail or get hurt. It’s the only way to succeed and truly be happy! You can be better off now, but you’re possibly missing out on great things by being mean! Experiences that could change your life just flying by because you got hurt in the past. Leave it there and move on with life. You’re only hurting yourself.
I’m sure there are exceptions, but as we all know, exceptions don’t make the rule. I’m not saying it’s right, I’m just what that it is what it is and that’s why women are the way they are.
I have faith in humanity, so I would argue that the men you are talking about are the exceptions to the rule!
You’re young, give it time.
I wish you all the happiness in the world, but I doubt you can have it while being so negative.
Absolutely not. As a gay guy, I grew up being shamed for it, and I was often asked if I wanted to be a girl, as if there was something wrong with being female or just feminine. It's not weak, it's incredibly brave.