Guys, what does "guys' night" really mean to you?

[Anonymous]

When you have a girlfriend and you go out for a night with the guys...

Is it as simple as it sounds? Just a night for you to hang out and relax with your fellow male buds?

Or is it so that you can have a night away from your girlfriend so that you're free to flirt with (or even worse) other girls while you're out with your friends?

Updates

+1 y

Does it make a difference if they're going to a party?

[AndreoFigueroa]

for me it's normally just a time with the guys to talk about nothing and everything, almost the same as it is with the girls.

as for flirting on a guys night well, that depends on the quality of guy and the crowd he's with. if I have a Girlfriend I don't have any interest in going after another girl, I know guys who are the same as me and some who aren't. so figuring that out may be hard, getting to understand the people he's meeting is easy.

-if you guy is meeting guys who all have GFs there less likely to sway into trouble, because none of them want to be even associated with cheating if they plan on keeping the trust with there GF.

-if some guys will bring there married friends to clubs just to dangle temptation in there face, pick up girls and bring them back to the table, ect.

knowing what goes on out there involves knowing who he's with.

[suavaye]

it is as simple as it sounds, guys ina relationship need to get out with there boys like they used to b4 he started dating you. just like girls do.

does that mean he's gonna flirt? that depends on the guy but I doubt it. he wouldn't need all his boys with him to pick up or hit on a girl.

what do girls do on girls nites?

[Asker]

I don't really know. I don't have girls nights cause most girls annoy the crap outta me lol

[suavaye]

he just wants to surround himself with testosterone, don't think anything of it

[Asker]

lol you're probably right, thanks.

[suavaye]

i had the best answer,. indian giver :p

[Asker]

Huh..? I never gave anyone best answer on this one yet lol

[suavaye]

umm hmm. I hope you hit the lottory one day ony to find out it was a computer error xp

[KinkItUp]

it's exactly what "girl's night" is...

We just hang out (party or not. doesn't matter) just to refresh. It's a little change every once in a while.

it's probably different in that guys would play videogames and we'd watch a romantic movie (not necessarily but you get the point)

Boys will still be boys. But we'll still be us

If you can't trust him however and you feel insecure I suggest breaking up with him. Even if you love him. A relationship isn't much of one without trust. Love sometimes just isn't enough.

I hope this helped

good luck :)

[Asker]

Lol actually if I had a girl's night I'd be more likely to play video games than watch a romance movie. I trust him, it's just things are still new for us and my last boyfriend never went out with his friends. So I was just curious to get some feedback from the guys on here. Thanks for answering!

[KinkItUp]

hahah actually my girl nights are videogame-based too. But you got my point!

Alright then, everything will be fine. good luck :)

[Riah92]

sometimes a guy needs to be with his friends, instead of his girlfriend constantly. only the douchey ones go out and hit on other girls and give out their numbers, etc. he misses his friends. he needs to be around his buds. you can't spend every waking moment together otherwise you'll drive each other insane. in a healthy relationship, the two people enjoy their partners company, but they also enjoy spending time by themselves. so don't think anything of it. believe me, you'll know when a guy is cheating. men typically make horrible liars

[PuffyPink]

Sometimes when a guy's really falling in love with his girl, he feels like he has to spend some time with his boys. Kinda to find himself again. Depends on how long you guys have been dating and stuff, too. He just doesn't wanna spend every waking moment with you *like one of the other answerers said* and just needs some time to be him. It's nothing personal

[johnny_hustle]

Number 1 is what I believe most guys do.

Number 2 is what I believe the douche bags do.

As to a party making a difference? Not at all.

[WeaponZero]

for me it means movies and video games or something else along those lines. as for your update, I wouldn't know because I don't go to parties. I avoid them.

[kennyk]

It's a chance for us to get away from and not have to deal with women. To completely relax and just spend time with the guys. Recharge the ol' batteries.

[arashmenalagha]

it means time to spend by themselves, or with their friends, because if they spend time only with girls it'll drive them crazy.

[mfcmflem]

it could mean both, but I'd usually mean it to be a hng out time with my male buds

[Anonymous]

even if it is the second one. you shouldn't care. get over your insecurity. be faithful, be kind, be useful and be trustful. if not, we see it as you being insecure and we'll have no problem flirting with other girls on "guys night out". youd benefit from reading jwoww's book the rules according to jwoww. it explains it well. I suggest reading it

[Asker]

So if my boyfriend wants a night away from me to go out and hit on other girls, I shouldn't care? Wow there's a healthy relationship...not.

[Opinion Owner]

if your secure with yourself, ull be fine for him to go out. if its innocent flirting, itll be fine. besides, if he wants to cheat/have sex, he's got what he wants at home. sometimes, we just need to get away from "just one girl". we usually come back, but its kind of irritating. like I said. ull benefit from reading jwoww's book. bitch

[Anonymous]

Yeah, most likely drinking beer and chilling with friends. Could be drunkin bowling, pool, video games, watching sports, casino, ect.

[Nic9001]

Starts out as just hanging with boys... in my experience. Everytime he goes out with the boys they get drunk and go looking for naked women.

[jackinoff]

Guys night should be a secret. Just like ladies night

[stercor]

No. 1: 20 percent.

No. 2: the rest.

[Asker]

=/

[tmlsmurfs]

its both