Looking at your question and then update I was just curious about something: Why did you pose this as a question at all when you make it evident in your update that you wanted a certain answer, and all who disagree with the quote you insult and accuse of racism and ignorance. Why not make a mytake then and just tell everyone what you believe instead of feigning that people may speak their mind here.
I don't speculate on the outcome of any games played in the name of the Oppression Olympics. I'd rather hear about people who are actually trying to make things better, in specific measurable ways, rather than arguing with each other about "who has it worst".
In my experience black women are only women who don't hate men and the only women who genuinely love sex with men. Sex with white women feels like they're doing it cause they owe you money, and they won't shut up about how they think the penis is super disgusting.
Ironic that black men keep rapping about black women being hoes and bitches while white men worship white women's feet without getting any respect in return.
its true, blacks have it hard when it comes to dating online. TOP responses (female) 9.3% of black women respond to black men, 7.8% Asian women respond to white men, %5 of latinas respond to white men, %6 of white women respond to white men
TOP responses (male) %26 black men respond to Asian women %19 Asian men respond to latinas %17,6 white men respond to Asian women %15,8 latinos respond to Asian women
Re update. I read your update then I read through the comments, I didn't find many opinions that I could even call racist or ignorant. I think sometimes that if one is told something often enough that they will begin to believe it, they will see themselves as the victim. Which is unfortunate because those who have the mindset of being a victim rarely fulfill their true potential.
I believe that middle eastern women like Jews or Arabs might be treated or more discriminated against worse! I don't know sadly it's hard to tell but hopefully one day there will be no racism and people will just celebrate all their differences!!!
There are black women trying to convert to white... bc hey see white woman beautiful... I disagree I think black women are beautiful as is.. believe me there aren't no black women scared
yeah you know what's funny, is that anyone who's not a black woman would condemn me for being racist for saying that, but anyone who is a black woman knows I'm speaking the truth.
As a black person myself I disagree, a lot of black women act in a manner that gives them those negative stereotypes. I honestly think Natives have it worse but we live in an era where disagreeing with a black person automatically makes you a racist or black traitor.
BM don’t protect BW how can you protect BW when you don’t protect yourselves? I’ve seen BM run to aid of WW / disrespecting and disregarding BW. WM protect me from BM
@ct1243 you obviously have a big problem with black men because you keep saying shit that I did not even say and you know what I'm done talking to a delusional person.
@ct1243 read my comment again does it say Black women or US Black people? It doesn't say U S Black people, it doesn't say Black Women it says US as in all of us Black people, your hate for Black men has got you so delusional you're reading words that aren't even there.
Once again it’s BM responsibility to fix the oow, domestic violence issues , clean up your neighborhoods , police your neighborhoods, treat BW with respect, and over protection/ all races of men can but not BM
@ct1243 still biased against Black men and that'll never change and I'm not here to change you nor am I going to watch videos biased against Black men so you can quit replying.
We as black women have try our best not to be the stereotype like a lot of people like to paint us as... clear yourself far away from those stereotypes. Be skinny, eat healthy, join clubs, dress extremely feminine, wear makeup. You will have all men interested in you if you do these things and willing to protect you.
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Black women are hella mean. That’s why no one likes them. I’d say black men for the answer, they get way less protection from others, they are on their own. Everyone wants to help a woman but not a man. Also don’t be racist and sexist unless you want the truth
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So why do you assume black women are mean? I'm not trying to be racist or sexist, so no need to be hostile. But I am curious as to why you think no one likes black women
So just because I'm a black woman, I'm mean and rude. Is that why no one likes me? Is that why no one ever wants to be around me? Because I'm a black woman. A lot of white people have that opinion lol, maybe in your generation but in mine I see kids of every race being friends because unlike your generation we base each other off of their actions not their skin color.
Lol great, nice job for following stereotypes. Now I'm guessing you think every black guy is a drug dealer or a criminal as well? Based off what you've stated it seems like something you'd believe in.
lol you're such a sweet little racist aren't you? I'm so glad disgusting people like you aren't in my life lol be careful or I might send the big scary black man on you lol. Remember to be a Karen my sweet little racist, good night.
Lol Im a proud white, racist to every stereotype yes, married, I own my home and cars (didn’t have to steal) and I’m going pretty darn good karenisha but in the end , I win, cause I’m white. And you know I win and that’s what hurts you the most
Lol I don't care if I win, it's not a competition lol. I don't care if I die either haha but the moment when you start pushing harmful stereotypes onto other people is where I draw the line. People of every race are mean, why do you think we call white women Karen? Why did you have to imply that you didn't have to steal a car, yeesh it shows just how far you are from reality when you think blacks have to steal everything.
I wonder how much it will hurt when you find out that, and bear with me for a second, black people aren't like the stereotypes. Wow who could've known.
Do you want me to do everything for you? Why don't you go outside (following guidelines of course) and meet some people. My neighborhood is predominantly black and it's very peaceful, no drugs, no violence, none of that stereotypical stuff. I'm sure you'll meet some nice people
Please don’t speak on the angry BW here is the stereotypes a lot of BW are pissed especially when we have to deal with abuse , disrespect, and lack of protection. How can you speak on BW when you’re not one
This is for the anonymous: you are so biased to think all black women are that way. You really need to stop generalizing a small population and survey outside of the box.
Generally I respect individuals not demographics but I'll humour the question. What are they doing to earn respect? Fot what reason that doesn't negate any earned respect do they need special protection.
Yes I can. Being black has nothing to do with it. I'm not a Christian and I know that the bible wasn't written by God. I'm not an astronomer and I know that Venus has the highest surface temperature while mercury has the most polarizing temperature. I'm not black and I know black people commit the most crimes here in America.
Because what the media protrays like BW and BM are horribly. The media is the biggest problem for society. You don’t know the struggles of BP because you’re not black unless you’re viewed as a POC - if non BP are trying to end racism it would stop a lot of things - since you’re not your WP gives you a pass to everything ( like you want too see black people suffer) no solutions to what struggles BP
I said exactly what I said and nothing I said was a lie none of Choi should be speaking on BP issues unless collectively you’re trying to end racism ( most of you’re not) BP struggles come from being looked down upon because we’re black. Don’t you have why privileges? Why do you feel the need to speak on behalf of BP? Unless you trying to end racism and come up with solutions than no. No non BP knows my struggles as a BW / including the non BW who posted this question. WS wants to see BP down - it benefits you ( non BP ). Now BW should run away from BM when it comes to survival
I'm not saying that black people don't have barriers or issues but the three things that you mentioned are very specific to men (of all colors) as compared to women
@SuccessfulHornDog I am sorry that's a nonsense statement. If you can not suggest a better criteria, than we really have nothing to discuss. Hey maybe I am wrong. But wrong how? Wrong why? I have no problem with someone saying my idea is crap. That's cool. But please come back with another one.
WTF, I only made a point that it is common for any men to be subject to prison, homelessness, and violence. and we both agree that is an accurate statement. Now you are telling me that I need to come up with some other statistic to prove YOUR original assertion that black men have it harder than black women? Come on dude that's not my responsibility. But your original statement is still true. Black men do face a harder time than Black women in those three areas. but so do men of all races. Its just a little misleading because if people didn't know that really applies to all men it would look different than if they understood its more of a male thing than a black thing.
You could compare black men to men of other colors and see what the stats show
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Looking at your question and then update I was just curious about something: Why did you pose this as a question at all when you make it evident in your update that you wanted a certain answer, and all who disagree with the quote you insult and accuse of racism and ignorance. Why not make a mytake then and just tell everyone what you believe instead of feigning that people may speak their mind here.
Yeah, disliking isn't an argument to whomever did it.
I don't speculate on the outcome of any games played in the name of the Oppression Olympics. I'd rather hear about people who are actually trying to make things better, in specific measurable ways, rather than arguing with each other about "who has it worst".
In my experience black women are only women who don't hate men and the only women who genuinely love sex with men. Sex with white women feels like they're doing it cause they owe you money, and they won't shut up about how they think the penis is super disgusting.
Ironic that black men keep rapping about black women being hoes and bitches while white men worship white women's feet without getting any respect in return.
its true, blacks have it hard when it comes to dating online.
TOP responses (female)
9.3% of black women respond to black men,
7.8% Asian women respond to white men,
%5 of latinas respond to white men,
%6 of white women respond to white men
TOP responses (male)
%26 black men respond to Asian women
%19 Asian men respond to latinas
%17,6 white men respond to Asian women
%15,8 latinos respond to Asian women
Re update.
I read your update then I read through the comments, I didn't find many opinions that I could even call racist or ignorant.
I think sometimes that if one is told something often enough that they will begin to believe it, they will see themselves as the victim. Which is unfortunate because those who have the mindset of being a victim rarely fulfill their true potential.
Society does portray black women very negligably. So much so to the point that men of their own kind begin rejecting them.
BM have self hate issues and if we’re looked at horribly it’s time to separate from the men
@ct1243 why would black men hate themselves?
I don't know @Jack9949
Doesn't seem right, the black women I came across were all really cool
I believe that middle eastern women like Jews or Arabs might be treated or more discriminated against worse! I don't know sadly it's hard to tell but hopefully one day there will be no racism and people will just celebrate all their differences!!!
There are black women trying to convert to white... bc hey see white woman beautiful... I disagree I think black women are beautiful as is.. believe me there aren't no black women scared
They would be converting because they want to be treated equally as the whites. It’s not based on beauty as most blacks are absolutely gorgeous.
Yes thank you but I ask my girlfriend why she wanted her hair straight bc I love how her hair is.. she said it's better..
If u look back.. woman of all race are better than where they where 60 years ago.. same for men.. I don't know what u think but thst my opinion
I'll say this: no race treats their women shittier than blacks
That's so sad but true. I did not want to mention that but you are correct. Black men treat us with less respect than other men
yeah you know what's funny, is that anyone who's not a black woman would condemn me for being racist for saying that, but anyone who is a black woman knows I'm speaking the truth.
Oh I know. I'm not even bothering to argue with some of the people on here as I know it's a moot point.
Thank you for understanding.
As a black person myself I disagree, a lot of black women act in a manner that gives them those negative stereotypes. I honestly think Natives have it worse but we live in an era where disagreeing with a black person automatically makes you a racist or black traitor.
BM don’t protect BW how can you protect BW when you don’t protect yourselves? I’ve seen BM run to aid of WW / disrespecting and disregarding BW. WM protect me from BM
@ct1243 all I know is US Black people have to fix ourselves if we want any change done.
That starts with BM what is boiling down too you sat here and blamed BW for the BC. BW should separate immediately from BM
@ct1243 you obviously have a big problem with black men because you keep saying shit that I did not even say and you know what I'm done talking to a delusional person.
I’m not delusional you just blamed the BW for the BC not our problem to fix the broken black community
@ct1243 read my comment again does it say Black women or US Black people? It doesn't say U S Black people, it doesn't say Black Women it says US as in all of us Black people, your hate for Black men has got you so delusional you're reading words that aren't even there.
Once again it’s BM responsibility to fix the oow, domestic violence issues , clean up your neighborhoods , police your neighborhoods, treat BW with respect, and over protection/ all races of men can but not BM
I have a channel on YouTube and I address these same issues
@ct1243 still biased against Black men and that'll never change and I'm not here to change you nor am I going to watch videos biased against Black men so you can quit replying.
Aslong as it benefits Bm its no problem but carry on BM don’t responsibility
It seems to me that black men are the biggest cause of those three things
They should be respecting them, protecting them and neglecting them
oops. They should NOT be neglecting them
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We as black women have try our best not to be the stereotype like a lot of people like to paint us as... clear yourself far away from those stereotypes. Be skinny, eat healthy, join clubs, dress extremely feminine, wear makeup. You will have all men interested in you if you do these things and willing to protect you.
Black women are hella mean. That’s why no one likes them. I’d say black men for the answer, they get way less protection from others, they are on their own. Everyone wants to help a woman but not a man.
Also don’t be racist and sexist unless you want the truth
So why do you assume black women are mean? I'm not trying to be racist or sexist, so no need to be hostile. But I am curious as to why you think no one likes black women
I don’t assume it I know it. Everyone knows that. They have horrible attitudes all the time and need to chill
As a black girl, it's nice to know that people view me this way
Ya I’m not hiding it, and most white people view blacks like this
So just because I'm a black woman, I'm mean and rude. Is that why no one likes me? Is that why no one ever wants to be around me? Because I'm a black woman. A lot of white people have that opinion lol, maybe in your generation but in mine I see kids of every race being friends because unlike your generation we base each other off of their actions not their skin color.
That is probably the reasons why they don’t like you, yes.
Lol great, nice job for following stereotypes. Now I'm guessing you think every black guy is a drug dealer or a criminal as well? Based off what you've stated it seems like something you'd believe in.
Lol aren’t they all. Look up some stats on this stuff. I don’t associate with blacks in person anymore. They disgust me and they almost always smell.
lol you're such a sweet little racist aren't you? I'm so glad disgusting people like you aren't in my life lol be careful or I might send the big scary black man on you lol. Remember to be a Karen my sweet little racist, good night.
Lol Im a proud white, racist to every stereotype yes, married, I own my home and cars (didn’t have to steal) and I’m going pretty darn good karenisha but in the end , I win, cause I’m white. And you know I win and that’s what hurts you the most
Oh, good night 😴🌙😘
Lol I don't care if I win, it's not a competition lol. I don't care if I die either haha but the moment when you start pushing harmful stereotypes onto other people is where I draw the line. People of every race are mean, why do you think we call white women Karen? Why did you have to imply that you didn't have to steal a car, yeesh it shows just how far you are from reality when you think blacks have to steal everything.
😄😉 Truth hurts kiddo
But hopefully u get over it
I wonder how much it will hurt when you find out that, and bear with me for a second, black people aren't like the stereotypes. Wow who could've known.
I’ve never met one that isn’t. They seem so angry and entitled. Prove me wrong... you haven’t yet
Do you want me to do everything for you? Why don't you go outside (following guidelines of course) and meet some people. My neighborhood is predominantly black and it's very peaceful, no drugs, no violence, none of that stereotypical stuff. I'm sure you'll meet some nice people
Do I want u to do everything for me? What does this even mean, or is that just that sassy attitude coming out 🙃
Please don’t speak on the angry BW here is the stereotypes a lot of BW are pissed especially when we have to deal with abuse , disrespect, and lack of protection. How can you speak on BW when you’re not one
This is for the anonymous: you are so biased to think all black women are that way. You really need to stop generalizing a small population and survey outside of the box.
False. I bet Muslims have it worse, not that I'm sticking up for anyone.
Better to be a black woman than be gay or transvestite. They have it way worse than your spoiled ass.
Generally I respect individuals not demographics but I'll humour the question.
What are they doing to earn respect?
Fot what reason that doesn't negate any earned respect do they need special protection.
I don't agree, but I cannot tell a black woman how to feel.
You’re not black how can you speak on black peoples issues that we struggle with daily? You can’t
Yes I can. Being black has nothing to do with it. I'm not a Christian and I know that the bible wasn't written by God. I'm not an astronomer and I know that Venus has the highest surface temperature while mercury has the most polarizing temperature. I'm not black and I know black people commit the most crimes here in America.
Because what the media protrays like BW and BM are horribly. The media is the biggest problem for society. You don’t know the struggles of BP because you’re not black unless you’re viewed as a POC - if non BP are trying to end racism it would stop a lot of things - since you’re not your WP gives you a pass to everything ( like you want too see black people suffer) no solutions to what struggles BP
Sure. Whatever you say.
I said exactly what I said and nothing I said was a lie none of Choi should be speaking on BP issues unless collectively you’re trying to end racism ( most of you’re not) BP struggles come from being looked down upon because we’re black. Don’t you have why privileges? Why do you feel the need to speak on behalf of BP? Unless you trying to end racism and come up with solutions than no. No non BP knows my struggles as a BW / including the non BW who posted this question. WS wants to see BP down - it benefits you ( non BP ). Now BW should run away from BM when it comes to survival
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Black Men are in the US. Black women are not as likely to face prison, homelessness, and violence. I wish our society was more just.
Couldn't you make the same comparison between white men and white women in those same categories?
@SuccessfulHornDog Yes. And it would be true in that case as well.
I'm not saying that black people don't have barriers or issues but the three things that you mentioned are very specific to men (of all colors) as compared to women
@SuccessfulHornDog What other category should I have considered? violence, prison, and homelessness all fit under unprotected.
I'm not really sure. where does the data take you?
@SuccessfulHornDog I am sorry that's a nonsense statement. If you can not suggest a better criteria, than we really have nothing to discuss. Hey maybe I am wrong. But wrong how? Wrong why? I have no problem with someone saying my idea is crap. That's cool. But please come back with another one.
WTF, I only made a point that it is common for any men to be subject to prison, homelessness, and violence. and we both agree that is an accurate statement. Now you are telling me that I need to come up with some other statistic to prove YOUR original assertion that black men have it harder than black women? Come on dude that's not my responsibility. But your original statement is still true. Black men do face a harder time than Black women in those three areas. but so do men of all races. Its just a little misleading because if people didn't know that really applies to all men it would look different than if they understood its more of a male thing than a black thing.
You could compare black men to men of other colors and see what the stats show
BW survive outside the BC the ooze, stds, and high domestic rate is why BW must think of her needs
Sorry Just because a woman is black does not entitle her to special treatment. I give respect when it is earned.