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"Dating for girls is like shopping. Dating for guys is like a job interview". Agree or Disagree? (Page 3)
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It depends on girl. I am men think liked this and I just assumed they looking for one night stand type of things. Like dating apps is there for a reason.
Instead of assuming men just want sex date and don’t put it seems a better option no?
@VaillaSalt that what I always get short term dating men that just wanted sex so know each time I see a short term I just assumed they just looking for one night stand or hockup. This what I do not want. This why I hate online dating site mostly guys there's is one and tried to have many sex with different women as possible and I am not interested in hockup or one night they all fuck off to another women and do not respond back me.
Ok now here’s a pathetic story from a guys side...
2 years on same dating apps and I’ve gotten one date by a person that was lying on her photos. She was at least 100lbs over what her pics made her look like. I’ve had multiple conversations with 1 worded reply’s. I didn’t count how many times I’ve been ghosted.
While you got the dates and got sex I got absolutely jack shit. Not even given the opportunity to show what I provide. I play piano. I am working on 2 languages. I’ve DIY flipped a home. I want a relationship and kids. I make 80k/yr when business is booming. I got my own vehicle and place. I got hobbies and many other good things... but I dont have height. I’m 5’7”. I’m maybe average on look as well. by the way while you spend $5/mo on tinder and other similar apps I spend $15. While you get free entry to clubs and free drinks all night I gotta drop $4 a beer and a entry fee. And so what if the relationships are short at least you get sex...
This is why I get so fucking pissed at women oh you got it so bad. It costs me more to the. I fail far more often. And if we did make it to marriage the chance of divorce and cost is so high it’s not even an afterthought.
Yet I am fucking virgin band only looking for a long term relationship only. No sex with stranger or one night stand. I am not interested in any form.. I just sick of men Evey single women is after sex. They not
. the it women that are after sex are slut and all I got from dating are guys that just want short or have sex even know that I am virgin and I been only in serious relationship only.
I'm sorry for all the guys agreeing. But guys can be pretty shitty too saying they want a relationship while planning on leaving you after sleeping with you. Just be honest peeps! I'm cool with whatever just don't lie. I do think that most girls don't go shopping around, but this one shitty person walking earth can really do some damage
The guys with the confidence to approach aren’t the same guys staying home and playing videogames all day, girls think that the majority of men chasing women and sleeping with every girl is all men. That’s why you guys think most men are players. But in reality it’s a very small group of men.
@chris_987 I never said it was the majority. I just said the majority of girls don't "shop around".
Explain what you mean, because on average girls have way more sexually options than men do
Copy and pasted i wrote to someone else. You might benefit. "Men aren't fuck boys, men fuck boy undateable girls. As someone who is called a fuck boy and player and such things, i have mainly been in steady ltr. When im single i fuck every girl that puts out but then won't date a girl who has sex quickly. Its not that i am a fuck boy but that im reacting to the girl. If she fucks me right away i dump her. If she shows me that she is very selective with sex then i date her."
@bamesjond0069 You know you're having sex too, right? It's not only the girl having sex on the first date it's you too. Jesus man don't judge her if you're doing the exact same thing
@chris_987 I mean that while if girls go on tinder they statistically get more matches it doesn't necessarily mean we engage in them. We're not shopping, a lot of us are on a search for a good man. Not just someone we like visually. But again... if you're a girl or a guy searching for casual sex as long as your honest about it no one is going to call you a f boy. That's my problem, guys who aren't honest about their intentions just shopping for someone to sleep with. And yes like I already said there are also girls that do this but it's not like every girl is shopping like this.
@Ansoohe but im not dating myself or men. Its not my job to judge men on their sexual behaviors. Im straight i only date women and so i judge them on if i desire them for a relationship.
@bamesjond0069 your desire can not possibly be dependent on whether or not they have sex on the first date that's just a shitty test to perform definitely since you're engaging in the same act. You absolutely have to judge yourself for that! Self reflection makes us human
Why do i have to judge my own sexual attractiveness? Just because you say so? What benefit is there to it? And in my experience its a great test. Lots of girls pretend to be nice but turn out to be sluts. So i catch em in the act! Haha.
@bamesjond0069 must it always be about benefits? Can't you just do anything that won't benefit you? I must say... from having this chat with you, you sound like a slut yourself
Thats the dumbest thing I ever heard. Why don't you do something against your own self interest for no reason? Nobody in the whole world does that. Why do I care if im a slut, the kind of girls i like dont mind seeing as my girlfriend was a virgin when i met her. So it was totally worth plowing through a bunch of skanks to find her.
In general yes. But that’s because most guys are stupid.
I agree, although there are elements of both for both genders.
I can't speak for what it's like for girls but for guys it's definitely like a job interview , and sometimes you don't hear back if you got the job or not, even though they said they will contact you.
Dating for girls is like shopping > yes when they're cheap sluts that sleep around.
Fuck women, they are a complaining machines, their vaginas smell, they get fat after pregnancy, they can't protect us physically but we protect them.
The only thing we ask from them is to get our backs and not cheat and they even fail at it.
How low can women be.
Because girls are confusing as hell, dont know what they want, when they want it, and how. For a guy you gatta show all your attributes in order to impress them. One wrong move she dont like n she'll throw you away like a piece of trash
Not exactly.. Shopping means spending. Which usually it's the man that pays everything. But it sure does feel like im interviewing my dates. And they do not ask any questions back.. 😑
Just wanna make sure I don't end up behind a dumpster 😅
And I just wanna make sure she’s won’t leave me for the pool boy and take my money lmao.
I did disagree, however... most of my girlfriends just approached me first, as their interest so that's funny.
you must be good looking
@robocop666 average good looking enough, I would look rather interesting and intriguing.
how the hell did women approach you? I dont get that
@robocop666 one just say "hey, you're Nathan right?"
the other said, "you should really listen to this song"
another was more of a classïc " Have we met somewhere?"
and another said " was that your girlfriend?"
so they all started from there
oh ok lucky you. I think you must look good otherwise they wouldn't bother.
@robocop666 I was not their first choices, when they "were looking around" as the original question in this post suggest, so like I said, I am just good enough for them to take a second look... but also, I know how to get in their minds.
And also, yes, 20 years of soccer does help the body look good, the rest is just a lot of confidence in what you really are.
whats interesting about you?
@robocop666 my mind.
ok I guess you just look good and dont know it
I think, I will only date a women who is a potential wife.
Dating wise maybe, not so much for relationships when it's a bit more even.
It is true to an extent but sometimes it is just the opposite.
Dating for HOT girls is like shopping. Dating for NORMAL guys TRYING TO DATE HOT GIRLS is like a job interview.
There--fixed it for you. NOW it's right.
@ update: Again, she's not talking about "dating for girls" versus "dating for guys." She's talking about dating for HOT girls versus dating for NORMAL guys trying to date HOT girls.
Evolutionarily you could argue that might be the case. But, if you wanna find someone who you really understand and relate to, and someone who understands you too the "fields" may equalise..
I disagree, that’s a narrow perspective. Everyone’s experience is different. Looking through your perspective, women only spend what they have. They invest in what they think will have the best outcome for their future. Women don’t go “shopping” for men, they simply have more judgement and preference when it comes to choosing a partner.
Keyword is “more” girls have way more options than guys. Therefore they choose who gets sex
I think its like a job interview for either sex. I guess multiple dates with different people could be compared to shopping too
Yes. I don’t really care about dating for love, I just like leading people on. I know it’s shitty but It’s entertaining to see how angry literally any boy gets when you don’t give them what they want or think you owe them something 🤷🏽♀️
thanks for reinforcing the stereotype that we're all bitches.
Only strange dudes would think all women are bitches. Same way as only strange women believe all men are assholes, no, only 98% of us. 😗😅
@K-I-S-S haha
@GirlyGal20 satire
Your parents must be proud of you. You are such a catch. Not! Hope you get what You give one day.
@Paul09 I’m joking that’s why I mentioned my comment being satire
Not all guys are looking for sex or think they are owed something in life. It is your loss. You are pushing a lot of great guys out of your life. You are also sending them the wrong message about women. However, I am not here to judge you. It is your choice to be a bitch. I will leave you with this. When you want true love, it is not going to be there for you; because you pushed your soulmate right out of your life. Get some help / therapy.
I’m joking? SATIRE
That's a good way to get raped bro.
@Susjsm so you’re basically saying boys are animals? They are human beings and if they’re horny jerking off is an option. Normal people don’t rape for whatever reason
Dating for me is more like trying to have a good time and if she's not a bitch, perhaps we'll do it again. Nothing like a job interview, really.