Why does it seem like men are far nicer and accepting than women are? (Page 2)
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Probably because it makes her feel better about herself. Women are selfish like that. It's a stereotype to assume that they're these caring loving nurturing creatures. They're not. They're manipulative, and only want control and power.
Both genders have shallow people. I've heard men call women fat, flat, nothing special etc. When they’re not even good looking themselves and I’ve also heard women being judgmental but towards other women instead. Also some women are really into the dad bods lol and some are not
I have a friend though that women have treated him badly the world just sucks. People tell me im pretty but then these ugly guys at work that look like ogres tell me that I’m nothing special people always find a reason to judge it’s better just to not give a shit. Whether you’re overweight or too skinny people will always give you shit.
That's more the outlier though (aside from people being critical/shallow), tall, fit men, and young women with big titties will dominate a bell curve. Or more to @mcheetah and his point, for how men view women it is a bell curve, for how women view men it's an exponentential curve, completely dead until getting to that most attractive 10% or so.
As far as your treatment at work, who knows, could be jealousy, could be the vibe you give off when you see them as ogres, their home life might be shit, whatever. I've never cared what my coworkers look like, just how well they do their tasks. Pursuing a relationship at work or with neighbors is a horrible idea. It is so difficult to get away from them when it ends.
For those saying you don’t agree an average looking guy probably gets zero attention from women however an average looking girl gets a lot more attention from men and that’s a fact
You're only seeing onse side of the coin, it's impossible for to experience what is like being an unattractive woman and how men (and other women) can treat us... if you're just talking about who finds sexually attractive who, then is just nature, women are more selective for obvious reasons, that doesn't mean we're assholes to the ones we don't find attractive
"that doesn't mean we're assholes to the ones we don't find attractive"
No, women generally are. They literally call them "incels" merely for being physically unattractive and nothing else. I think that you just *think* you aren't being cruel to them.
You also don't get much sympathy when you're claiming men can be mean to unattractive women (in my opinion; they generally aren't unless they're all-around jerks anyway), while also making excuses for women doing the same thing to unattractive men calling it "nature" and "obvious."
You have met terrible women un your life
I think its cause we juat don't care about things woman care about, like we could have a house or apartment with barely anything in it. But for a women she will decorate the place enough to make it look like a home if she's living there too.
Because 8/10 times we are lol. We don't have as many standards or filters that need to be filled so we're more accepting. Which is a double edged sword if you ask me
Because men give all kinds of women attention and they resound better to only a small percentage of men and treat then better. And it's true, men are much more nicer and accepting because a lot of men go through the same shit
Because most men know how easy it is for an altercation to spiral out of control.
De-escalation sometimes involves being "nice" Sometimes women say shit that, if I said, would get me punched in the face or something.
Naa I dunno. I'm just salty
Good question, I always been wondering that for years still yet to find an answer to it
do you think its maybe something they are born with it?
Ain’t nobody gunna touch this one ahahha. Men are just not as mean as women. We can be obtuse and uncaring at times, but we are simply not as cruel
Societal conditioning and ease of availability. Dating is used as a buyer vs sellers market by many women these days.
Male standards are actually not so high. Men like women, period
Yes. Men love women. They are our favorite toy.
Sense when? @Randomguy1030
I'm not really sure. Maybe it's because women are more nit picky.
It must be some sort of neurobiological thing that I can't pretend that I have an understanding for.
I’m much more critical than my wife. Just anecdotal experience I suppose, but women seem to be more accepting.
Because men are not as superficial especially since we are the ones who have to be picked
Maybe because the modern man is feminized? Like sperm counts dropped 60% in the past 50 years. Similar statistic with testosterone levels. Imagine if all women walked around bald with beards?
It seems like we certainly have to kiss their ass a lot
Because they’re trying to nice their way into someone’s life or pants.
Be a woman and date men and see if you feel the same. I have had men be ruthless for no reason.
I already pointed that out in my post. Some men can be jerks; like maybe 5-10% of them, but MOST women, like 60-70% of them, treat men awful and think they have a platinum vagina and deserve Prince Charming just for existing.
I don’t know I think I’ll see it more in men and you’ll see it more in women.
I feel like it’s the opposite, but ok