Do you think older people should be respected?

[Anonymous]

There's a belief here in the Philippines that you should respect elders despite of how they treat you. You shouldn't answer back even if they mistreat you cuz its impolite. People would think you are in the wrong cuz they are older even if they wrong you should always respect them. Well not to me Most of my older relatives are not polite and most are abusive and still expecting for younger people to respect them jusr because they are old so I dont respect them. I believe respect is earned not given. I will treat you with respect if you do the same to me.

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My older family members are not polite and disrepectful and dont understand respect is two way.

[Gaurav2]

Respect need to be earned..
I agree with you. Mahal kita.

[KostasKouvalis]

If they deserve it, yes

[OlderAndWiser]

"I will treat you with respect if you do the same to me." So who goes first?

[Asker]

I respect everyone until they give me a reason not to respect them.

[OlderAndWiser]

Same here.

[jshm2]

Depends what they have done to reach that old age.

Could be they've served 30 years in prison, are you going to "respect" them for that?

But I digress.

You seem not to understand the difference between being civil and respect. Thus they are right in your case to call you a disrespectful little shit. You be civil to them as family and guests - it's not a matter of respect as none of you have any.

[Asker]

Lol you act like you know them. Those people are emotionally abusive

[Jadeli]

From where I come from, we are also taught to respect those older than us. No matter what evil deeds they commit or anything else. However as time went on I asked my self if it is really necessary.
Even if they disrespect you to a certain extent it's better to respect them.
If you disrespect someone you will be
like that person however if you repay disrespect with respect , they will one day realize how bad their attitude is.
Or when they finally need you, you will show them

[NorthwestRider]

Philippines sounds like a stupid country.

Respect needs to be earned

[Asker]

Yours too.

[NorthwestRider]

Lol the older people in your country sound evil

[Intothevoid666]

On some level yes because they have more life experience and tend to know better than younger people but it depends

[CaptainLegal]

No, respect is earned not given, everyone should be treated nicely though

[clemdenim]

Giving respect earns respect