How can a white guy attract black women?

Question

I always see questions on here asking if white guys are attracted to black women. Or if white guys would date, have sex, fall in love, or marry a black woman. However it's asked it's essentially the same thing. I recently started a new job, and the majority of my coworkers are beautiful black women. I'm very attracted to black women and am very interested in a particular girl. She is f***ing gorgeous. But anyways. Any tips on spitting game. I'll be honest, I'm a little out of my element when talking to her. I'm pretty much a corn fed white boy. I feel we have nothing in common. I get nervous and never know what to say. But oh my god, she's is a goddess. Pretty smile, sexy lips, big bright eyes, and that butt...oh man, she has the perfect ass. I'd eat pudding out of it. I want to take a plaster mold of it and make a statue in it's honor. She's super cool too, very nice girl. So where are these black women that are always posting these questions? What attracts you to white men? Are you into wanksta ass white guys, or corn fed country boys? What can I do or say to catch her eye?

Answer 1

Anonymous

The way you described her ass kinda makes me think you just want to bang her. Not actually date her and if that is the case fine But don't disrespect her or treat her like an experiment. I've dated some black chicks and they don't want to be just some white guy's conquest. I'm sure she is very proud of her figure but she isn't a piece of meat. Having dated several black women here is my suggestions if your serious. Be straight forward and confident with her. Make her laugh a lot, compliment her looks all the time and don't check out other girls in front of her. act like a gentleman. Seriously, go out of your way to make her feel special in small ways. Going to get a coffee? Offer her one. Bring her a snack. Open doors for her, pull out her seat if your on a date. FEED HER! And keep feeding her. I'm serous they love food. Have some ambition in life. She doesn't want a scrub she wants a man. Show her your responsible side, don't be a broke bum and make her pay and support you. Learn how to dance and move your body with rhythm. Dance is a major part of her culture and knowing how to bust a move or two will majorly improve your chances. You don't need to be awesome. Respect her family, especially her mom. Do not try to act black just be the white guy you are. This should get you started, good luck.

Nena_Linda18

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I love everything you said! That is a true respectful man! Especially the part about food. I do love to eat. :)

Answer 2

Nena_Linda18

I love everything you said! That is a true respectful man! Especially the part about food. I do love to eat. :)

Answer 3

EngineeringStudent | 456 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic.

Guru

The type that would be into the wanksta ass white guys would be the kind you want to avoid. Just be yourself and approach Black women you like.

Answer 4

Anonymous

I'm not into wanna be ganster white guys I might be attracted to some but I wouldn't date them and probably not befriend them and the emo type or skater ones look so good but most have tattos piercings and smoke :( and I don't really like the nerdy type but those are least afraid to talk to me but I don't know if I find a guy attractive I just do breaking it down to type and race just isn't necessary

And I know white would do it with us but that's just their fantasy they don't want a relationship sad but true at least in the U.S. so I probably wouldn't date one but good luck just be yourself

Answer 5

Anonymous

Be confident and be yourself. One thing I HATE is when a white guy approaches me and he acts like a wanna be thug. It's so fake and it's insulting because he's assuming that because I'm black I'm either ghetto or like ghetto guys. I know right then, that he's not open minded or seeing me as a person with a clean slate. So don't do that lol. Just be yourself and don't be nervous, she's a person just like you. Also interracial relationships seem to be on the rise these days, I notice I am seeing more black girls dating white guys and other races now.

Answer 6

diamond3

Yoda

i am attracted to white men. However I would never date a white guy who acting like a thug. I wouldn't date a black guy who acted like a thug! be yourself. Most girls are attracted to smart interesting men so just be yourself. If she likes you then she will don't try to be something you're not

Asker

+1 y
No worries, I wasn't gonna try and act thuggish ruggish lol. I was just curious because I'm the "corn fed country boy". Pretty much the opposite of thug. Was just wondering what the girls that normally ask about white guys preferred.

Answer 7

Asker

No worries, I wasn't gonna try and act thuggish ruggish lol. I was just curious because I'm the "corn fed country boy". Pretty much the opposite of thug. Was just wondering what the girls that normally ask about white guys preferred.

Answer 8

peace-love-couture

Yoda

I'm part black & we are the same as white, Hispanic(which I'm part also), Asian, blue, green and orange girls.

If we are attracted to you and have interest in you, it'll all come together.

Just be yourself. I can't stand wiggers or people who feel the need to put on their "swag" so hard.

white guys are the only ones who ever approach me lol Every now and then some ghetto black dude will or an Asian dude will be interested, but mostly white. don't know why

kindlady420

+1 y
your not the same. your uglier. white girls are the best looking and white guys are the hottest guys.
EngineeringStudent

+1 y
Your username contradicts what you just said.
EngineeringStudent

+1 y
*that was meant for kindlady*
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AndySmites

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@kindlady420 beauty is subjective. I happen to find black women more beautiful and sexy.

Answer 9

kindlady420

your not the same. your uglier. white girls are the best looking and white guys are the hottest guys.

Answer 10

EngineeringStudent

Your username contradicts what you just said.

Answer 11

EngineeringStudent

*that was meant for kindlady*

Answer 12

AndySmites

@kindlady420 beauty is subjective. I happen to find black women more beautiful and sexy.

Answer 13

DiamondKutt

Xper 6

As a black woman who likes white guys, I would like it if a guy just acted like himself. But I'm not really into ghetto guys. I don't know about country guys. I'm more into jocks/athletic guys or rocker guys.

I can't tell you what kind of guys she likes exactly. But just be yourself. Don't change for her or anyone else.

Answer 14

pukom92

Xper 4

i am into white guys that are white. so you are in a good position. and well just approach her with respect like you would approach any white woman you respect and like.

Answer 15

Hyped_up_on_coffee | 1.2K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic.

Master

you just talk to her and flirt with her like you would with a normal girl . Black girls are still just regular girls there is no trick to it .

Asker

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It's just weird, I feel like we're from different planets lol. Like she was talking to me about music, and I felt lame as f***. I don't know who f***ing Drake is, and I'm not a fan of Wayne lol. The only reason I know who Niki Manaj is, is because she has a ginormous ass. It's just...different. That and she's so beautiful, it's hard enough to act casual. First girl in years to give me butterflies in my stomach.
Hyped_up_on_coffee

+1 y
its the cultural difference then not all black girl are like that but may be you and her share other common interests
thalazarus

+1 y
Well listen to some of Drake and Waynes songs

Answer 16

Asker

It's just weird, I feel like we're from different planets lol. Like she was talking to me about music, and I felt lame as f***. I don't know who f***ing Drake is, and I'm not a fan of Wayne lol. The only reason I know who Niki Manaj is, is because she has a ginormous ass. It's just...different. That and she's so beautiful, it's hard enough to act casual. First girl in years to give me butterflies in my stomach.

Answer 17

Hyped_up_on_coffee

its the cultural difference then not all black girl are like that but may be you and her share other common interests

Answer 18

thalazarus

Well listen to some of Drake and Waynes songs

Answer 19

sephora | 472 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic.

Yoda

just be yourself, approach her just like you would approach any other girl.

Answer 20

dreadheadMJW | 81 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic.

Yoda

Confidence is the key.

Asker

+1 y
I feel ya. I've always been confident, but I guess the problem is for some reason when I talk to this girl, I have like absolutely no confidence lol. She is just so damn pretty lol

Answer 21

Asker

I feel ya. I've always been confident, but I guess the problem is for some reason when I talk to this girl, I have like absolutely no confidence lol. She is just so damn pretty lol

Answer 22

kameello

Xper 1

I love black women so much like there black body hot body so much

Answer 23

Anonymous

Hi I'm black and the best thing to do is just being yoursefl. Dont: change your accent.

Do: be a true gentlemen

Answer 24

Anonymous

Do you have a job? Cause then you're way ahead of the curve

peace-love-couture

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lol
Asker

+1 y
LMAO yes, I work with the girl I'm interested in.

Answer 25

peace-love-couture

lol

Answer 26

Asker

LMAO yes, I work with the girl I'm interested in.

Answer 27

johari | 898 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic.

Guru

Woman attract men not the other way

Answer 28

thewho1975 | 89 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic.

Xper 6

I wish i knew im in the same situation!

Answer 29

Anonymous

I'm not sure if the girls are into white guys

Answer 30

Anonymous

I'm into skater guys usually

Answer 31

Anonymous

Just be yourself.

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